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Of the Children Who Didn’t Get Drowned

An essay from the book I’m currently, “working on”, on the experiences of how we grew up into, adulthood, how the adults tried to drown the children, to TEACH them to swim, translated by me… We are all children, who … Continue reading

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The Rules of Their Worlds…

The rules of their worlds, you were made, to abide by, and you couldn’t question why, you grew up, under their, reign of terror! The rules of their worlds, they’d become, hurtful, and forced onto you, and no matter how … Continue reading

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The Look of Fear in His Eyes…

The look of fear in his eyes, that, was what he gets off on! He’d loved, seeing that fearful look in that young boy’s eyes, and the more scared the child became, the more powerful, he’d felt! The look of … Continue reading

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The Loneliness that “Stemmed” from the Early Childhood Years…

So, you think that your feelings of loneliness just, found you recently? Get REAL, it’d always been there, you just didn’t notice it, until recently… The loneliness that “stemmed” from the early childhood years, remember those moments of abandonment, when … Continue reading

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In a World of L-I-E-S

Nurture had, once again, WON over NATURE here!!! In a world of L-I-E-S, we were raised up, our parents lied, because THEIR parents lied (and, you DO see where I’m goin’ with this, right???), and, they’d, “bred” us, into, a … Continue reading

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Driven by Fear to Behave

There’s this, steady kind of, never ending, always there, kind of fear, that’s right behind me, chasing me, and every time I’d, eased up just a little, it’d, hounded me down. Driven by fear to behave, that, is how we … Continue reading

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A Child Trapped in Fear & Darknes

A child trapped in fear and darkness, how, does it (gender unspecific here!!!) manage to, survive, do you know? Of course N-O-T, ‘cuz you’d, never had the pleasures (yeah, that’s still sarcasm!!!) of experiencing that. A child trapped in fear … Continue reading

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Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents

That’s uh, the ENTIRE human population???  Uh, yup, looks like it!!! We are all adult children of emotionally immature parents, and, because our god DAMN, way too FUCKING (oopsy!!!) RETARDED parents can’t have a clue (and there’s no way of … Continue reading

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A Man Who Never Could Tell the Truth

He’d been lying, ever since he could recall, first, it’s the small things, like did you hit your sister? Nope, she’d, bumped her head on her own!, Then in school, why are you cheating off of her? I didn’t, I … Continue reading

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Tiptoeing Through Life

and no, not my photograph… I must, be extra careful, as to NOT wake up the others in my life, hey, this, IS my life, oh yeah, and I’m still, the ONLY one “here” (don’t ask “where”…)… Living inside this … Continue reading

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