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Mom, I’m Not Angry

When the mother FAILED to be a mother, the daughter felt compelled, to become the parent in the relationship, and, there’s, NOTHING the younger generation can do about it…translated… A letter, written by a daughter to her mother, translated… Mom: … Continue reading

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Make Me Horny, Daddy…

“Make me horny, daddy…”, she’d heard her childhood self muttered, as he’d, fingered her smaller, and more delicate labia… Make me horny, daddy, she’d panted, and whispered, out of breath, then, she’d, displaced herself, sent her mind soaring, elsewhere, so … Continue reading

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The Caretakers Should Always Remember to Love Themselves

Trapped, by her mother’s severe depression, she’s, stuck! The downside to how when parents “USED” their own young as their “significant other”, translated… I’d met up with my old friend, and I’d felt worrisome over the life she’d had these … Continue reading

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The Enmeshment of Children from Single-Parent Homes…

The conclusions of things, from the various things I observed, read up on, and yes, there are still those, “odd ones” that don’t quite fit in this “circle” I’d, drawn… There’s, this prevalence (or so I’m inclined to believe???), that … Continue reading

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A Mother to You…

    A mother to you, I will never be, because (get a hold of THIS!!!) you did NOT get pulled out of my VAGINA, therefore, I have no need, no obligations, to give you the god DAMN love you’d … Continue reading

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The Carrier of Their Secrets…

now, imagine it was a young child, doing this deed!  Not  my picture here… She’d become a vessel, a sort of a Pandora’s Box, save that unlike the original tale, there’s, NO hope, that’s left, at the very bottom… The … Continue reading

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When the Stories Became, More than Just Stories…

As children, we have, the tendencies, to OVERINTERPRET things, to look too deeply, for the meanings, and eventually, that’s, what screwed us ALL over as we were growing up… When the stories became, more than, just stories, because, those stories … Continue reading

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Foolishness

A SERIOUS case of E-N-M-E-S-H-M-E-N-T here!!! Translated… The five of them, stayed closed to Tsai’s bedside, they’d all set, in separate folding chairs; the eldest daughter, Hsin-Fang and her husband, Wen-Huang Lin, Hsin-Fang’s younger brother, Hsin-Shyong, and his wife, Mei-Yue, … Continue reading

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Despite How You’d Hurt Me, I Still Love You…

This, would be how the “child” gets TRAPPED, after the parents had done her/him wrong, again, and again, because as children, we WERE, completely, reliant on our parents, for the sake of OUR survivals??? Despite how you’d hurt me, I … Continue reading

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