Category Archives: the Vicious Cycle

The Look of Fear in His Eyes…

The look of fear in his eyes, that, was what he gets off on! He’d loved, seeing that fearful look in that young boy’s eyes, and the more scared the child became, the more powerful, he’d felt! The look of … Continue reading

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Intertwined in Love

Next to the bridge downtown, the one that disappears into the clouds, your shadow moves across fresh snow until it rests its head on my shoulder. You were once my girl, but now you’re my ghost. I’m sure you would … Continue reading

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Supporting the Battered Women, the Profits from the New Drama Production by Gong-Liang Gu Goes Entirely to the Foundation for Battered Women

With the donations from the ticket sales of the shows, giving battered women a better chance at life, from the Newspapers, translated… The fifty-year-old May had been on a smooth ride of life since the beginning of her life, but … Continue reading

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It’s Not Your Fault, it’s How You Were Raised…

This may be the truth, but, it can turn into RATIONALIZATION, and EXCUSE very quickly… It’s not your fault, it’s how you were raised. You weren’t to blame for carrying the wayward values you’d carried and practiced throughout your lives. … Continue reading

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Ran Out of Excuses for Loving You, Long, Long, L-O-N-G Ago…

You can’t blame me for not tryin’ hard enough here… but I ran out of excuses for loving you, long, long, L-O-N-G ago! The day I’d started running out of excuses was that night you’d come home drunk, and hit … Continue reading

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Being Cruel, in the “Name” of Love

And, you ALL DO realize, how this, is NOT L-O-V-E, right??? I’m scolding you, in the “name” of love (but I’m NOT your mother or father, I’m just your spouse!!!), and, even though, I’d become, verbally abusive (and of course … Continue reading

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I Want to Live for Myself Now!!!

I want to live for myself now, I’d lived out your god DAMN dreams for so long, and, although you’re still alive (unfortunately!!!), I KNOW I’d earned the right, to LIVE for myself now, so, whatever I do from here … Continue reading

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