Category Archives: the Cycle of Abuse

The More Tender His Kisses…

The more tender his kisses, the harder the blows will be, that, is the rule, that’s already been, ETCHED in S-T-O-N-E! You know that he’s not good to you, and yet, you can’t help it, but feel drawn to him … Continue reading

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The Look of Fear in His Eyes…

The look of fear in his eyes, that, was what he gets off on! He’d loved, seeing that fearful look in that young boy’s eyes, and the more scared the child became, the more powerful, he’d felt! The look of … Continue reading

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It Took Me Nearly DYING…

It took me nearly dying, catching a glimpse, at my own reflection on that broken mirror of marriage, to finally realize, that you weren’t good for me, that I needed to, make my escape! It took me nearly dying, to … Continue reading

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Forgiving You for Betraying Me

Sometimes, it becomes, nearly impossible, to forgive our parents for the abuse and neglect we’d all weathered through, partially because, those god DAMN F***ING (feel free…) parents of ours still won’t admit what they did to us was abuse instead … Continue reading

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Supporting the Battered Women, the Profits from the New Drama Production by Gong-Liang Gu Goes Entirely to the Foundation for Battered Women

With the donations from the ticket sales of the shows, giving battered women a better chance at life, from the Newspapers, translated… The fifty-year-old May had been on a smooth ride of life since the beginning of her life, but … Continue reading

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It’s Not Your Fault, it’s How You Were Raised…

This may be the truth, but, it can turn into RATIONALIZATION, and EXCUSE very quickly… It’s not your fault, it’s how you were raised. You weren’t to blame for carrying the wayward values you’d carried and practiced throughout your lives. … Continue reading

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Being Cruel, in the “Name” of Love

And, you ALL DO realize, how this, is NOT L-O-V-E, right??? I’m scolding you, in the “name” of love (but I’m NOT your mother or father, I’m just your spouse!!!), and, even though, I’d become, verbally abusive (and of course … Continue reading

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