Category Archives: Socialization, Staying Active During the Elderly Years

Dad’s First Time Shopping, Finally Understanding Him

The father only didn’t want to impose on his family, so, he’d not, enjoyed “shopping” from before, but since he’d become, “mobilized”, he’d, enjoyed it, a whole lot! Translated… “Nah, you guys go ahead, I prefer to stay in the … Continue reading

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Sending My Godfather into Daycare, the Loved Ones Became More Relaxed Mentally, as Well as Physically

A way to take care of the elderly who’d become demented, whom you love dearly, to give yourselves some breathing room too, from the Newspapers, translated… My godfather, after dad died, would take a walk to our house to sit … Continue reading

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His Three Sons Took Turns Looking After Him, Taking Care of His Needs as He Ages

These children worked out a schedule, so their father would be well taken care of, it’s a amazing thing that these children are doing, to look after their elderly father, translated… My seventy-five-year-old eldest brother three years ago, because of … Continue reading

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My Father Enjoyed Staying at the Nursing Homes, with the Professional Care Provided, We Felt More at Ease

Alternative perspective, to looking at placing your parents in a nursing home, translated… Nine years ago, my mom passed away, and dad chose to stay behind at home in Menon, on the land outside the house, it’d became his track … Continue reading

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Class Reunion

Got that invite in the mail, or do they do e-vites now, huh??? Translated… I’d bumped into a former classmate, the two of us started catching up, talked about everything that’s happened in our separate lives, and, it’d felt amazing. … Continue reading

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Sending the Elderly Parents to a Nursing Home=Being Unfitting as an Offspring? Having the Healthcare Professionals to Look After Ones’ Elders, Feeling More Secure

This is, the traditional Chinese beliefs, that should be, thrown OUT!!! From the Newspapers, translated… My originally independent, able-bodied mother had a stroke, plus she’d begun to stutter when she spoke, being outgoing and social, she was, greatly impacted, was … Continue reading

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Using Gardening Therapy, Awakening the Rose in Her Memories

From a seminar on how to look after elderly living in the secluded areas, from the papers, translated… There is a “healing garden” somewhere in Hong Kong, especially for the demented elderly or elderly who’d become incapacitated. An elderly woman … Continue reading

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Helping Patients with Dementia Stay Independent

A more positive way, to cope with the diagnosis of Alzheimer’s and dementia, from a newsletter I received, in Chinese, translated by me… Four years ago, as Tomofumi Tanno was diagnosed as being mildly demented, he was only thirty-nine. And … Continue reading

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Moving in, to a Retirement Village

A good way to live out your elderly years, and, it’s not because your children are, abandoning you in your elderly years either!  Translated… A friend who’d lived in the States long term, after her husband died, she’d moved back … Continue reading

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The Mahjong for Two

A revised game for two now, with the rules being, adjusted to fit our playing requirements, to help our minds stay active during old age, translated… My wife and I are both retired, and, the retired elderly had nothing on … Continue reading

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