Category Archives: Parenting Advice

I Want to Live for Myself Now!!!

I want to live for myself now, I’d lived out your god DAMN dreams for so long, and, although you’re still alive (unfortunately!!!), I KNOW I’d earned the right, to LIVE for myself now, so, whatever I do from here … Continue reading

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The Cure-All Hugs

Because that, is the amazing healing “powers” of a hug??? Translated… We’d gone to the ball pools to play on the weekend, there was a child of a little over a year old who’d fell, his parents were close by, … Continue reading

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A Mother to You…

    A mother to you, I will never be, because (get a hold of THIS!!!) you did NOT get pulled out of my VAGINA, therefore, I have no need, no obligations, to give you the god DAMN love you’d … Continue reading

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Talk to Your Children about Your Encounters of Lost Loves

Why it’s, absolutely necessary that you share these memories with your young, translated… Because I had to choose to become an unwed mother, unavoidably, I’d needed to, explain how our family was special to Mimi Chou when she was quite … Continue reading

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We Always Want to Give Our Own Children What We Lacked as Children Ourselves

A common mistake, of ALL parents???  Translated… I’d gotten a ton of feedback from last week’s “Sense of Security & Sense of Reality”.  A friend whom I know for many years felt, that in this current world, raising our children … Continue reading

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I Can’t Tell You It’s Okay, But I Forgive You

On parenting…translated… In the coming of age process of a child, it’s hard to avoid the bumps and bruises, mostly, if they’d hurt themselves, the parents would feel awful, because they couldn’t take their pains away.  In another scenario, if … Continue reading

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Children Modeled After the Adults’ Reactions Getting the Negative Emotions Out, Teaching the Children to Tell Us What They Did Well, as Well as What They Didn’t Too

The adults’ way of responding is VERY important…from the Newspapers, translated… “Doctor, my child doesn’t tell me anything that’s happened in school!”  “I noted that he’s upset, but I’d asked him, he just, shuts down.”  This is, the problems that … Continue reading

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