Category Archives: Parenting Advice

I Can’t Tell You It’s Okay, But I Forgive You

On parenting…translated… In the coming of age process of a child, it’s hard to avoid the bumps and bruises, mostly, if they’d hurt themselves, the parents would feel awful, because they couldn’t take their pains away.  In another scenario, if … Continue reading

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Children Modeled After the Adults’ Reactions Getting the Negative Emotions Out, Teaching the Children to Tell Us What They Did Well, as Well as What They Didn’t Too

The adults’ way of responding is VERY important…from the Newspapers, translated… “Doctor, my child doesn’t tell me anything that’s happened in school!”  “I noted that he’s upset, but I’d asked him, he just, shuts down.”  This is, the problems that … Continue reading

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The Tragedy of Spoiling a Child Rotten

The ADVERSE effects of SPOILING a child ROTTEN, translated… “Cheng’s wife asked me for money again!”, my mother started complaining to me. Cheng and his wife worked together, ran a steel mill together for years, and they’d bought the parts … Continue reading

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Checking Out & Returning Books to the Libraries, Teaching the Children a Sense of Responsibility

Method of education here, teaching a child, to have a strong sense of social responsibility, from checking out books for her at the library, translated… My daughter, Huei, is six this year, at the age of getting her to learn … Continue reading

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Skipping School

Allowing his daughter, to take the time she’d needed, to come back onto the right tracks, not pushing her to comply to the “norms” of the rules, translated… I was born in the 1960s, with an assortment of physical punishments … Continue reading

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Do We Go by Talents? Or, Our Areas of Interests? On the Education of the Children

How do we choose, for our young???  Oh, let THEM decide for THEMSELVES!!!  Translated… As my two children were still in kindergarten, I’d found, that they’d had, the “absolute tones”, and so, as they’d entered into the elementary years, every … Continue reading

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The Parenting Lesson I Got from a Homemade Small Volume by My Young Daughter

A lesson in parenting, learned, by the mother, taught to her, by the young child, wow, who’d thought, huh, that a young child can teach HER own mommy how to be a better parent???  Translated… It was the year that … Continue reading

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