Category Archives: Mistakes in Parenting
The Forest, the Music, and the Arts………the Children in Europe and America are Happy Living as Themselves
A comparison of how students in the western societies versus here, from the Front Page Sections, a discussion sparked up by the suicide of the first-year female high school student, from the Front Page Sections, translated… A while ago, the … Continue reading
Posted in Beliefs, Causes of Death, Death by Neglect, Death in the Family, Loss, Mistakes in Parenting, Problems in Education Today, Purpose of Education, Untimely Deaths
Tagged Cause of Her Suicide, Expecting Success in Children, Hindsight, Styles of Education: East vs. West, the Aftermath of a Teenager Who'd Committed Suicide
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The Pain You Became Blind to
The pain you became blind to, mine, you just, MUFFLED up your ears, and, pretended NOT to hear, and I’d, cried, so FUCKING loud, and yet, nobody came……… The pain you became blind to, yours, because your FUCKED up parents … Continue reading
The Parenting Lesson I Got from a Homemade Small Volume by My Young Daughter
A lesson in parenting, learned, by the mother, taught to her, by the young child, wow, who’d thought, huh, that a young child can teach HER own mommy how to be a better parent??? Translated… It was the year that … Continue reading
Posted in Beliefs, Experiences of Life, Family Dynamics, Family Relations, Interactions of Parents & Childlren, Lessons of Life, Mistakes in Parenting, Parenting Advice, Philosophies of Life, Properties of Life, the Consequences of Life, the Learning Process, Values of Life
Tagged Modeling Behaviors, Parenting Lesson from a Young Child, the Observant Nature of a Child
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The Most Important Thing
Blackmailing children with our love, children who are, kidnapped, by the need, for our love, translated… A few days ago, I’d asked Mimi Chou who was seven, “What is the most important thing to you?” without hesitation, she’d replied, “the … Continue reading
Posted in A Wrong Kind of Love, Bad Parenting, Beliefs, Experiences of Life, Interactions of Parents & Childlren, Lessons of Life, Mistakes in Parenting, Parenting Advice, Ranting About Life, the Consequences of Life, The Trials of Life, Values of Life
Tagged Emotionally Blackmailing Your Children
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Forcibly Loved, a Poem
Not allowing the younger generation to live for themselves, a poem, translated… When Freedom is Compromised You’d, Stuffed Me into the Novels……… “Let Us, Start from the Make-Believe” All the Way, You’d, Made Revisions of My Future……… This, is not … Continue reading
Posted in A Wrong Kind of Love, Adults Misbehaving, Bad Parenting, Experiences of Life, Lessons of Life, Mistakes in Parenting, Philosophies of Life, Properties of Life, Ranting About Life, the Consequences of Life, The Trials of Life, the Vicious Cycle, Things that Came Too Late in Life, Values of Life
Tagged Forced to Live Out Someone Else's Dreams, Planned Out Their Futures, the Impositions of Dreams
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I Can’t Wake Daddy Up!
Weekends here, spend more time with your young! Oh wait, you can’t, you want to, sleep OFF your workweeks, don’t you??? Translated… The two days of the weekend last week, my young son slept in until noon, had it not … Continue reading
Posted in Alternative Perspectives, Experiences of Life, Interactions of Parents & Childlren, Mistakes in Parenting, Philosophies of Life, Properties of Life, Ranting About Life, the Consequences of Life, The Passages in Life, the Process of Life, Values of Life
Tagged Children Waiting, Fathers Not Making Time to Spend with Their Young, the Weekend
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Holding Hands
Making up for the lack of experience of holding hand when one is younger now, translated… When I’d gone out on a date, I’d always held hands with my lover. Back when I was still, far away from the romantic … Continue reading
Posted in Adult Children, Beliefs, Experiences of Life, Interactions of Parents & Childlren, Lessons of Life, Mistakes in Parenting, Philosophies of Life, Properties of Life, Ranting About Life, the Consequences of Life, the Process of Life, Values of Life
Tagged Making Up for the Lacking in Childhood Years, Overcompensating, Parents Who Don't Physically Show Affection to Their Children When They're Young
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A Right, and a Wrong Way to Love
Here’s, that black AND white, with NO grays in-between!!! There is, a right, AND a wrong way to love someone, you may think, that the way you’d shown love for someone is right, because you were “show” the same measures … Continue reading
Leaving His Newborn Son Asleep on a Bed All Alone, the Infant Died
A death, caused by neglect, and the inexperience of first-time father, who’d taken the advice of the “experts”, from the Front Page Sections, translated… A first-time father, Tsai followed advice in the parenting book, “The 100-Year-Old Doctor’s Way of Childrearing”, … Continue reading
Life, the Obstacle Course 