Category Archives: Mistakes in Parenting
Seeing the Depressed Child Inside
Psychology of healing up the self here, excerpt from a book, translated… Does it Often Feel Like You’re Not Good Enough, and You’d Felt Unsettled in Interpersonal Relationships, Having Difficulties Trusting Others? Or How Every Time a Situation Surfaces, You’d … Continue reading
At the Age of Fifteen, Ying Di Still Allowed Her Son to Sleep on the Same Bed with Her, Demanded that Only When He Turns Eighteen, then He Shall be Allowed to Go Out on His Own, and If He’d Not Made at Least an 80 on His Exams, He Would Get Physically Punished
What made the Taiwanese T.V. star, Ying Di’s son “turn bad”, because she’s a, TIGER mom!!! From the Entertainment Sections, translated… Ying Di and Peng Sun’s son, Enzo Sun went to Pennsylvania to study, and had been arrested for his … Continue reading
Posted in Adults Misbehaving, Bad Parenting, Beliefs, Experiences of Life, Facts, Mistakes in Parenting, Properties of Life, Ranting About Life, the Consequences of Life, the Ins & Outs of the World, The Trials of Life, Values of Life
Tagged Growing Up with a Helicopter Mom, Parents Not Letting Go of Their Own Young, the Son of a Taiwanese Star Who'd Threatened a Terrorist Attack
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Never Say “No” Again, on How to Get Along
A lesson in parenting, learned, from the interactions that she had with her own young son, translated… In recent six months, I’d started a language experiment for myself—as I’d talked, I’d, tried avoiding the word “no”, especially when I talked … Continue reading
When Money Became the ONLY Consideration of Their Criticizing Your Choice of Occupation
This would be, just one in ZILLIONS of ways, that you, god DAMNP F***ING parents can, SHOOT your kids’ dreams down! When money became the only consideration of their criticizing your choice of occupation, perhaps, because they’d, traveled down that … Continue reading
The Cure-All Hugs
Because that, is the amazing healing “powers” of a hug??? Translated… We’d gone to the ball pools to play on the weekend, there was a child of a little over a year old who’d fell, his parents were close by, … Continue reading
The Fairytales that Scared Us
The purpose of fairytales became to THREATEN children into behaving themselves, translated… As I was a child, I’d feared the story of Pinocchio. After I’d learned to read, my maternal grandfather bought a set of fairytales which had been rewrote … Continue reading
We Always Want to Give Our Own Children What We Lacked as Children Ourselves
A common mistake, of ALL parents??? Translated… I’d gotten a ton of feedback from last week’s “Sense of Security & Sense of Reality”. A friend whom I know for many years felt, that in this current world, raising our children … Continue reading
Posted in Beliefs, Experiences of Life, Lessons of Life, Mistakes in Parenting, Parenting Advice, Philosophies of Life, Properties of Life, Ranting About Life, the Consequences of Life, Values of Life
Tagged ASSumptions, Overcompensations for Our Own Childhood Years, Providing for Children What We Lacked as Children Ourselves
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Children Modeled After the Adults’ Reactions Getting the Negative Emotions Out, Teaching the Children to Tell Us What They Did Well, as Well as What They Didn’t Too
The adults’ way of responding is VERY important…from the Newspapers, translated… “Doctor, my child doesn’t tell me anything that’s happened in school!” “I noted that he’s upset, but I’d asked him, he just, shuts down.” This is, the problems that … Continue reading
Once a Very Well-Behaved Child…
Once a very well-behaved child, she’d done everything, as she was told by her adults, sat like those little girls who are trained to, with the legs closed together, very soft-spoken, never raised her voice, even when she feels angry! … Continue reading
Posted in Alternative Perspectives, Beliefs, Child Development, Experiences of Life, Mistakes in Parenting, Properties of Life, Ranting About Life, Socialization, the Consequences of Life, the Learning Process, Tips of the Icebergs, Values of Life
Tagged Feigning Compliance, the Psychology of Rebellion
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Life, the Obstacle Course 