Category Archives: Memories Shared

Becoming, a Gentler, Caretaker

From the perspectives, of a bystander, who may NOT know the whole story, translated… “Didn’t you cry of aches and pains a lot at home?  How come the moment we’re in the hospital, it’s, all gone away?”, in the waiting … Continue reading

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My Father’s Moringa Caramels

illustration from UDN.com Showing the love, with the sweets, the memories the son carried now, of his own, father who worked hard, gave everything he had, to the family, translated… The issues of whether or not Moringa Caramels are made … Continue reading

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Meeting the Iron Lady in Thailand on a Trip

The connections with someone on a trip that extended to this day, translated… In the summer, many years ago, I’d won a raffle, to Thailand, free of charge, and got acquainted with Liu who was in the same tour group, … Continue reading

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Meeting Up with My Old Friends

Thoughts, being rejuvenated, after a get-together with a group of old friends, reconnected, once more, translated… I’d, set up the treat slices for my old dog, Yellow, told him, “Okay now, mommy’s out!”, and he’d not done as he normally … Continue reading

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Two Separate Mindsets in Dementia, from the Caretakers’ Journal

The characters of these two elderly women’s personalities were, flipped, upside down by dementia, translated… When my mother-in-law was eighty-three, she was diagnosed as having vascular dementia, and my husband and I took over the caretaking of her, she’d, changed … Continue reading

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Starting to Read with Your Children When They’re Young

This verifies the VITAL importance, of reading to your own children!  Translated… My almost six nephew is really active, the eight adults in my grandmother’s house needed to take turns, playing games with him, and, as the adults became tired … Continue reading

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The Very First Birthday Cake

Memories of earning your very first “paycheck”, so to speak, to buy something special for your mother on her birthday, translated… The very first cake that’s shown up at my house, was for my mom, I’d saved up my year’s … Continue reading

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Married, a Poem

The loss of a spouse, it’s, never easy, until you finally realize, that s/he is still, with you, wherever you are, translated… From the Funeral, I’d, Returned to the Apartment I’d, Crawled onto the Floors, Cried Aloud Searched for My … Continue reading

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The Gap Between the Father & Son

The general problems of fathers and sons, stemmed from how men are, socialized, and this father was, willing to change his ways, more or less, translated… For a Father’s Day Special, I had the hard-to-come-by opportunity, to interview pairs of … Continue reading

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My Dutch Grandmother, Come for a Visit at My Home

the photo of the homestay mom’s mother having her birthday celebration, photo from UDN.com… How the elderly in the Netherlands are aging, in their own ways, more gracefully, than most of the elderly in the Asian world, because they were … Continue reading

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