Category Archives: Family Relations

Who Stole My Money Away?

On the impacts of dementia on the family members who took care of the elderly, translated… A couple of years ago, since my father-in-law passed, my mother-in-law who was mobilized, refused to let the nurse’s aide stay, she’d, rather live … Continue reading

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Grandma, a Kiss

Moments before dying, how this elderly person held on, refusing, to close her eyes, because she wanted to, look upon her offspring a little bit, longer, translated… Memories, of the love and interaction, with one’s elder, translated… This past couple … Continue reading

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The Sound of My Children, Coming Down the Stairs

On filial relations, translated… After work, sometime, I’d buy the supper, or the groceries on my way home.  At this time, it’s, already past dusk, and the children are all home, doing their assignments now.  I live on the fourth … Continue reading

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Paying Someone the Kindness Shown to Us Double

The misunderstandings, the misinterpretations, that’s, caused everybody to get on one another’s bad side, simply because, what was expected, was NOT spoken aloud!!!  Translated… Forty years ago, my eldest brother who was two years out of the services, still hadn’t … Continue reading

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An Alternative Sort of Long-Term Care

Her mother became, the primary “caretaker”, the “go-to woman”, for her paternal grandmother’s caretaking needs, translated… I bear witness to, an alternative kind of long-term care every single day. A phone call, it’d made my mother, drop everything all at … Continue reading

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Grandma on Call

This is, your SECOND chance at being a caretaker of a young child, and because you’d missed out on your own son’s childhood years, naturally, you’re NOT going to let this chance slip on by, are you???  Naturally not!  Translated… … Continue reading

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Keep Ourselves Connected with the Pointless Conversations

Bonding, between father and sons, translated… “Do you want me to bite my hand hard, to call my older brother back home for you?”, my youngest son asked. In the Ichibangai Street in Tokyo train station without wi-fi, the four … Continue reading

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My Mother-in-Law Made Dumplings for Twenty Years, Keeping the Dementia Away

The fine motor movements would help dementia to stay away from you that’s for certain, how this elderly woman stays healthy in the mind, translated… Twenty years, and inside of my mother-in-law’s refrigerator, it’s always, filled up with her own … Continue reading

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Quarter Leg

How dementia progressed, very slowly, in this elderly woman’s life, translated… She’d, looked and me, thoughtful, asked, “How come you get to come back, and my mother can’t?  I looked at her, suddenly understood, she’d, mistaken me as, her father……and … Continue reading

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The Symphony of My Parents’ Lives

Our lives together, translated… My parents are in their eighties now, and they’d still, had small arguments over the unimportant matters in life. That day I’d called mom, she’d started, pouring her heart out to me as dad wasn’t beside … Continue reading

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