Category Archives: Child Development

Good & Evil are Two Sides of the Coin

The discussions that stemmed, from this bedtime story that this father told to his own young daughter, translated… Since my daughter was little, she’d loved the stories of “Rapunzel”, “Sleeping Beauty”, “Cinderella”, “Snow White”, all of these, she’d, memorized by … Continue reading

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Adding to Children’s Separation Anxiety if the Parents Weren’t Willing to Let Go

Due to the differences in attachment style patterns of children, this, is why this would be, happening, and yet, the parents are still, the CULPRITS who’d, caused this to go on without even knowing it, from the Newspapers, translated… Jun-Jun … Continue reading

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Hey, Little Girl…

Hey little girl, what’s the matter, why you so upset? Well, don’t be, SNAP out of it! Hey, little girl, nobody loved you, but that’s, okay, you still, grew up TOUGH, and, ain’t nobody EVER gonna hurt us again that’s … Continue reading

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The Rhythm Class We Took Together

How children learn to socialize with each other, starting at a very young age, translated… Our daughter, Jen-Jen is three this year, in order to help her find her interests, we’d assigned a parent-child music movement course for her, in … Continue reading

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When the Child Starts Crying as School is Mentioned

a child, who’d been, condintioned to like preschool…photo from online… A child’s FIRST day of SCHOOL, and how the parents handled it, is VERY important!!! Translated… The fifth day of school, they’d sent a notice home, that there was a … Continue reading

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The Person I Looked Up to the Most…

A child, who’d, misinterpreted the teacher’s point, translated… That was, a systematic, a closed up, a rule-is-rule-is-rule era of life, even as the children were told to write the essays, they’re, expected, to do so like fitting the numbers into … Continue reading

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Reasons Why Children Don’t Want to Go to School

There are, VALID reasons, that a lot of parents don’t notice, when their kid said they didn’t want to go to school anymore, translated… The day right after school started, my son announced to us, that his “experimentation of going … Continue reading

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Masking Violence as Being “Civilized”…

From a blog in Chinese, translated by me… After watching the T.V. personnel, the movie stars going around once, I’d summed up, that those who’d still believed in using physical punishments on the younger generations shared these, same blind spots: … Continue reading

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Making the Deliveries of Money to My Grandparent’s Home

Memories of the childhood years, translated… The storks in Andersen’s stories brought new life to the homes that wanted children; and in reality, I was the money delivery bird, delivered the money to my grandmother who lived away from the … Continue reading

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The Issue of Not Having Anybody to Play with of the Only Children

The pros and cons noof being an only child, translated… Mimi Chou is the only one in her class without any siblings.  In Hualien, it is truly rare, to be an only child, as I’d gone lecturing at the schools … Continue reading

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