Category Archives: Breaking Free from the Cycle of Abuse
Just Because the Ones Who’d Hurt You are, Already D-E-A-D…
The living still kept ALL the “scores” on “behalf” of the DEAD here!!! Just because the ones who’d hurt you are, already D-E-A-D, that doesn’t mean, that they’d, paid up for what they did to you, because you’re, still here, … Continue reading
Posted in Beliefs, Breaking Free from the Cycle of Abuse, Experiences of Life, Lessons of Life, Opinions, Overcoming Obstacles in Life, Philosophies of Life, Properties of Life, the Consequences of Life, the Cycle of Abuse, The Trials of Life, the Vicious Cycle, Unspecified, Values of Life
Tagged Death Solves NOTHING!, Forgiveness that Does NOT Come with Death, Holding on Tight to that Grudge, Murdered by My Family, the Invalid Forgiveness
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Things Monsters Have, to Teach Us…
I know, I know, YOU (‘cuz I ain’t one o’ ya!!!) guys are all, too scared, of those things that go “bump” in the nights, those monsters that resided, underneath those beds, inside them closets, of our childhood years… But, … Continue reading
Masking Violence as Being “Civilized”…
From a blog in Chinese, translated by me… After watching the T.V. personnel, the movie stars going around once, I’d summed up, that those who’d still believed in using physical punishments on the younger generations shared these, same blind spots: … Continue reading
Troubled, by These Dreams…
Troubled, by these dreams, and I can’t tell why, I mean, you always showed up in them, and, we’d, carried on in pointless conversation as we’d done, and yet, you’d always, gotten up, then, turned away from me, then, you’d, … Continue reading
I Love You Too Much…
I love you too much, that’s why it hurts, so very, bad… I love you, too much, so much it hurts, not having you in my life, I’d, lost you, a long, long, long, long, long (5 longs that oughta … Continue reading
After the Conditions in Domestic Abuse Was Taken Care of, the Couple Started Relating to One Another Better
Here we have, a “success” story from the counseling program offered from the above, from the Newspapers, translated… For some of the abusers, after counseling, they can return back to their families, some had reduced their own negative emotions. The … Continue reading
Posted in Abuser/Enabler Interaction Styles, Beliefs, Breaking Free from the Cycle of Abuse, Experiences of Life, Lessons of Life, Positives of Life, Properties of Life, the Consequences of Life, the Cycle of Abuse, the Learning Process, The Passages in Life, Values of Life
Tagged a Program to Reform the Abusers, Behavior Modification Programs
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Counseling the Abusers, to Learn to be Alone & Anger Management
A program, to help the abusers, hoping, that with the supportive network, and more effective outlets of their angers, they don’t have to resort to violence again, from the Newspapers, translated… Last year from January to September, there were 15,157 … Continue reading
How Easily You’d Forgotten…
Memory lapses here… How easily you’d forgotten, about what happened to you as a child, and how easily you’d, passed the ABUSE and NEGLECT you’d received, and hated going through, down to your own young… How easily you’d forgotten, their … Continue reading
Posted in Abuser/Enabler Interaction Styles, Adult Children, Adults Misbehaving, Breaking Free from the Cycle of Abuse, Causes of Death, Child Endangerment, Death by Neglect, Death in the Family, the Cycle of Abuse, Untimely Deaths, Welfare of Children
Tagged Abusive to His Own Child, Denial, the Adults' BAD Memories
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Let’s Fall in Love………Let’s Not!
Let’s fall in love, you’d said to me, before I could answer, that deep part of my heart whispered, “let’s not!”… Let’s fall in love………let’s not, but why not? This, feels right between us, don’t it? It may feel right, … Continue reading
Posted in A Wrong Kind of Love, Abuser/Enabler Interaction Styles, Breaking Free from the Cycle of Abuse, Experiences of Life, Lessons of Life, Love Became an Excuse, Properties of Life, Ranting About Life, the Consequences of Life, the Cycle of Abuse, The Trials of Life
Tagged Love is Not Love, Mistaken Abuse for Love, Soliloquy, Why & How Love Became Unnecessary
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The Broken Dolls of My Childhood
I had, broken my SHARE of dolls of my childhood days all right, and, NOT all of them were, porcelains either!!! There was that one, that his STUPID son failed to catch, as I, acted out the anxieties of the … Continue reading
Posted in Breaking Free from the Cycle of Abuse, Experiences of Life, Lessons of Life, Ranting About Life, the Consequences of Life, the Cycle of Abuse, The Trials of Life, Values of Life
Tagged Inflicting Pain on Something that Can't Fight Back, Sexual Molestation During the Childhood Years, the Doll Corner, the Rapes of Dolls
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Life, the Obstacle Course 