Category Archives: Breaking Free from the Cycle of Abuse

Running from the Ghosts of My Traumatized Childhood

God DAMN it! Why are y’all still followin’ me ‘round? I’d blurted out angrily, at these monsters who can’t seem to find a BETTER hiding place than underneath this childhood bed of mine… Running from the ghosts of my traumatized … Continue reading

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Pao Cheng-Fang Had Suffered Endless Abuse at Her Ex-Husband’s Hand, He’d Chased After Her with a Butcher Knife

The EX-HUSBAND is the one to blame, for how they’d interacted AFTER they were divorced, nothing good off of the Entertainment Sections, translated… The fifty-eight year-old Pao Cheng-Fang had weathered through two marriage, had a hard time in romance, of … Continue reading

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A Pandora’s Box of Your Lies…

You’d, handed me, a Pandora’s Box of your lies for keeps, and, knowing how that myth’d, turned out, I’d, kept my, little wandering hands away from that box… That Pandora’s Box of your lies, sat in that unknown corner of … Continue reading

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Soaring

From the blog, of a man who’d weathered through childhood sexual molestation at his nanny’s house, by her and her children in Chinese, translated by me… Some things would, always, HIT be unexpectedly, although, they’re usually, one in the same. … Continue reading

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Just Because the Ones Who’d Hurt You are, Already D-E-A-D…

The living still kept ALL the “scores” on “behalf” of the DEAD here!!! Just because the ones who’d hurt you are, already D-E-A-D, that doesn’t mean, that they’d, paid up for what they did to you, because you’re, still here, … Continue reading

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Things Monsters Have, to Teach Us…

I know, I know, YOU (‘cuz I ain’t one o’ ya!!!) guys are all, too scared, of those things that go “bump” in the nights, those monsters that resided, underneath those beds, inside them closets, of our childhood years… But, … Continue reading

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Masking Violence as Being “Civilized”…

From a blog in Chinese, translated by me… After watching the T.V. personnel, the movie stars going around once, I’d summed up, that those who’d still believed in using physical punishments on the younger generations shared these, same blind spots: … Continue reading

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Troubled, by These Dreams…

Troubled, by these dreams, and I can’t tell why, I mean, you always showed up in them, and, we’d, carried on in pointless conversation as we’d done, and yet, you’d always, gotten up, then, turned away from me, then, you’d, … Continue reading

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I Love You Too Much…

I love you too much, that’s why it hurts, so very, bad… I love you, too much, so much it hurts, not having you in my life, I’d, lost you, a long, long, long, long, long (5 longs that oughta … Continue reading

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After the Conditions in Domestic Abuse Was Taken Care of, the Couple Started Relating to One Another Better

Here we have, a “success” story from the counseling program offered from the above, from the Newspapers, translated… For some of the abusers, after counseling, they can return back to their families, some had reduced their own negative emotions. The … Continue reading

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