Category Archives: Breaking Free from the Cycle of Abuse

To the Father Who Raised Me…

Did you, “raise” me, or did I have to RAISE myself??? To the father who “raised” me, yeah, I guess, you’d, never made me worry about money, or anything materialistic, I’d had, EVERYTHING I’d needed, provided for me, without having … Continue reading

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These Eggshells I Walked on…

like this??? not my photograph… These eggshells I once lived on, they’re, in bits and pieces now! These eggshells I once lived on, don’t know why I’d still kept them around, I need ZERO reminder of that fucked up, already … Continue reading

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A Letter from a Battered Woman

In desperate need of ADVICE here!  A Q&A, translated… A self-claimed no way out, Ms. A, wrote a third time to ask for help.  Her husband is abusive, and a lot of things had the two of them fighting, the … Continue reading

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Breaking Free

From a Chinese website of a man who was sexually molested and abused when he was a young child, translated by me… This is the dream of a woman. The woman arrived before a doorway.  She’d knocked, and an elderly … Continue reading

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Weathered Through All Those Years of Love…

I had already, weathered through all those years of love you’d, given to me, and now, I’m, so totally, burnt out!  Weathered through all those years of love, not knowing, that something wasn’t, quite right, as the love you’d, offered … Continue reading

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Broken, But Not D-E-A-D!!!

I may be broken, but I’m NOT D-E-A-D!!!  I may only have that lingering breath inside of my lungs, but, until I finally stopped breathing (check, no pulse!!!), I will keep on fighting! like this!  Not my photograph… Broken, but … Continue reading

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One Day, You Shall Wake Up, Unafraid

One day, you shall wake up, unafraid, it’s just, that that day is still, long ways away, you’ll have to just bear with the moments of life you are weathering through for now… like this???  Not my photograph… One day, … Continue reading

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