How becoming more economically independent is what makes us, free ourselves, from our, DEAD-END, marriages! Off of the Front Page Sections, translated…
There’s the trends of retirement divorces coming on, there is, the increase in number of mature women who are getting divorced, the women’s group stated, that a lot of the marriages had been on the rocks too long, but the couples stayed together, for the sakes of their own children. Until their young left the nest, most will, file for, divorce, and, other factors involved are due to the economic capabilities of women, and how their, senses of the self is, elevated. In practicality, there was the children who took their aging mothers to the divorce counseling sessions, hoping that the moms can live out their lives more fulfilled, and happier too.
The offices of internal affairs pointed out, that with the socioeconomic makeup of the society shifting, the average level of education of women, along with the economical independence on the rise, the traditional beliefs of “men in charge of outside the home, women in” is shifted, and, there are, multiple reasons to consider in keeping up a marriage or not, of them, the trends of couples being married for over thirty years getting divorced is noted.
here’s a graph, on the divorce rates in the U.S. found online
The C.E.O. of the Warmlife Women’s Foundation, Shen stated, that there was, a hike in the number of older women getting divorced. A lot of women tried to change their marriages for the better but to, no avail, in the past, they’d stayed in the marriage, because of how young the children are, but as the children are older, and can take the fact that the parents are divorced, they’d, normally, filed. She’d pointed out, practically speaking, a lot of children had, taken their mothers to counseling, they’d expressed, that they don’t want to see their mothers in distresses anymore, or hoped to help their mothers to live freer, and happier.
Shen told, that the divorces that happen in older woman may also be due to the restructuring of society, a lot of families are dual-income, women have more economic independence today, if they feel, that the marriage no longer fitted them, plus the changes in the societal atmospheres, with the supports of their loved ones, and the children didn’t want to see their mothers caught in a bad marriage for them, this would be a bigger motivation for women in midlife wanting to get divorced.
The C.E.O. of the Garden of Hope Foundation, Wang stated, that the increase in women divorcing after midlife, surely has to do with women’s economical capabilities as well as their own, self-awareness of the genders. As men and women are weighed on equal basis, the differences became, almost, invisible, and women are no longer, reliant on men, there are, the women in their forties, and fifties who’d made the brave decisions of divorce. And, the support of the social welfare is important as well, a lot of married women didn’t get divorced, because they’d considered the lacking of social benefits, in recent years, the society increased the support systems for single parents, which is what made women braver, to divorce.
And so, these days, we women are braver to file for divorce, because there are more supports from outside, the local programs, the privately funded organizations, and besides, we women are becoming, more and more aware by the generations, of how we don’t need to, TRAP ourselves in the loveless, abusive marriages, for the sake of our own children anymore, like how women from, twenty, thirty, forty years ago thought that they had, no place to go, and all of these, increased our own awareness, which is why a lot of women today, are, brave in getting divorced.
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