This is the IMPORTANCE, of allowing your young children to just, CRY!!! From the experts here, off of the Front Page Sections, translated…
Everything in the world is related to each other, with the pros, AND the, cons, for instance, without light, we can’t see anything, but as the light became, too strong, it’d, hurt our, eyes.
A lot of the first-time mothers didn’t know that their babies can already, flip over on their tummies, and normally, it wasn’t until when they were changing their infants, when the infant flipped to the floors from the sink. Because the bathrooms is where we groom ourselves, the lightings are normally, brighter, and this brightness is too strong for the infants’ eyes, very uncomfortable for them, and when a living organism feels uncomfortable, its natural instincts are to escape, a three-months-old’s muscles aren’t controlled by her/his brains, but as the muscles became stronger, to evade the light, the infant flips over, then, falls to the ground.
And that, was how my friend’s baby flipped onto the floor when she was changing his diapers, she was worried that he might have a concussion, took him to the E.R. She wrote me to ask: don’t humans have eyelids? Why don’t the infants just close their eyelids when the lights are, too bright?
They do, shut their, eyes, it’s just, that their eyelids can’t block out the bright light. And, even though the visually impaired people can’t see, they still know night from day. Normally, when the dentists weren’t drilling into the patients’ teeth, they’d, turned the surgical lights off, so the patients won’t feel, uncomfortable.
The damages of light is greater than we can imagine (actually, there’s a method that the investigators use, using strong light to shine on the eyes of the suspects, to make the suspects uncomfortable, and when the suspects aren’t comfortable, they would have slips of the tongues). I’d often seen young mothers, pushing their babies out on the strollers in the heat of the summer. These infants couldn’t sit up yet, mostly were lying in the strollers, and the sun would shine into their eyes, and at this time, I’d always gotten reminded of the movie, “Hanging Tree”, and hesitated if I should tell the mothers that this wasn’t good for the infants.
This was a good movie from 1959: in 1870, there was a carriage that was robbed in Montana that flipped over, the female passenger was tossed out of the carriage, fell into a comatose on impact, face up on the hillside, as she was finally saved, the sun had sone on her eyes for three whole days, and she’d become, blind.
As babies are just born, their eyes hadn’t developed completely yet, they have myopia of about three-hundred degrees, the outer coverings of their optical nerves weren’t fully developed either, they couldn’t focus their eyes yet. So, children before one-and-a-half, would sit very close to the television when they watch, because they couldn’t see it clearly. The infants’ eye diameter is about sixteen mms, and until age three, the diameter would grow to about twenty-three mms. This is precisely WHY, the children under age seven should NOT be allowed to play with the iPads or cell phones, because it would damage their eyes.
The infants can’t verbalize their needs, but, getting away from danger is the most natural of animal instincts, very much so for infants too, when they’re uncomfortable, they will CRY to show you their needs. Don’t ignore infants when they cry, because they also have emotions too. If the diapers are dry, and the bottles had just been fed, and the infants are still crying, pick her/him up, comfort her/him a bit, don’t ignore her/him. The line, “you don’t allow your children cry, in the future, they will MAKE you cry”, is completely wrong, and inhumane. There were the parents who’d followed this sort of claims out of the caretaking manuals of Japan, left the infant to cry until they fall asleep, and in the morn, the parents went to check, the infant was, already, DEAD, the infant had cried until s/he barfed up the formulas, and, choked on the barf. There were the preschool teachers who’d discovered, that infants who were left to cry, grow up to be, selfish, and not played well with the rest of the group.
When the needs of infancy and childhood weren’t fulfilled, it would, affect the personality formation of the person into adulthood. The reasonable love is not spoiling, don’t fear that you may spoil your child, the laws considered the feelings too, let alone when interacting with your own young, how can you allow her/him to cry until s/he is, out of air? And, believe what those “experts” tell you about, childrearing?
The most blissful thing in the world is being loved, this includes the animals, I’d often felt bad for the stray cats and dogs. Actually, children aren’t ever, difficult, so long as you take the time to understand why s/he is throwing the temper tantrums. Before the adults get angered, do, consider things from your young infant’s perspectives, to see if her/his needs are, fulfilled. Don’t forget that joke: why are you wearing so much clothes? Answer: because my mother is cold!
And so, this is how the parents still think that they know best, when in truth, what the @#$% do you, @#$%ING parents know??? Oh yeah, DIDDILY SQUAT! Because you don’t allow your children to cry it all out, because their cries are annoying the HELL out of you, because of whatever the @#$% (maxed out?) is bothering you, you’d, spanked them, because you want them to just SHUT up, to STOP making all that noise, to get on your nerves, well you know what, you stupid parents, like this professor of neuroscience stated: if you don’t allow your children to cry when they are growing up, they will, MAKE you cry when you’re older, so, it’s still, ALL up to you, stupid (‘cuz that’s what you all are!) parents WHAT to do.
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