Teaching her young, that messiness, IS, a part, of life, from the earlier interactions with her own child in her, childhood years, translated…
My friend is a mom of a star, once I’d inquired curiously, “aren’t you under a lot of pressure when your child is examined by the public under a microscope?”, she’d flashed that wicked sort of a grin, and started, sharing with me her way of teaching her child. She’d told, that her child had been very disciplined since she was young, she’d needed to set her own toys up orderly, and that when she’d, messed up the environment, the child would, melt down, and started crying to her father for help, I’d become confused, “why did you do that?”
The mom told, that she wanted to show her young, that there’s NO set way to do things, that it’s okay if it gets, messy, orderly too, don’t be too stubborn, and her heart could then, handle a whole lot more. That if the toys scattered all over, just pick it back up and put it in order, but after everything was in order, there may be some external forces, out of, no where that messes it back up again, like her, a weird mom, but, if the toys get all over the places, does that mean that she wouldn’t, play with it anymore? Of course not, because it’s still, her, favorite, toy, after she’d dried up her own eyes, she will still, keep on, playing with those toys, happily, just as she had before.
the child, being, too ANAL, couldn’t, tolerate, this…
This sort of ways to educate, it’d, surely, helped her daughter withstand great amounts of, pressure, the star mom shared, awhile ago, the child was bombarded with the false rumors of being involved with someone else, and, the words of the online community, it’d, affected her for sure, she’d felt, upset, but, still, gone to her filming sessions as scheduled, while her mother showed concerns for the matter, the child told her, “mom, stop worrying, just look at it as toys being, left all over the places!”
“Treat it like toys left all over the places!”, toward the many messes that come up in life, that surely, would be, a good perspective to take! Surely, there’s, NO set way of life, there’s NO set orders to the world, not everything will, go according, to your plans, but, as things get messed up, just, groom through it on your own, and, adjust what’s strayed, back, onto, the right paths, growing in the processes, and, gaining the wisdom through the hard work, that, is what’s most, important, life is all about, experiences, and everything good AND bad, shall, come to, pass, and we shall all, continue to, play with those toys, happily!
And so, this, is how childhood play time, set up this individual to handle the pressures of her adulthood years, and the child became, maladapted at once in her life, as her mother, messed up her toys, but, from interacting with her mother, she’d, learned, that it’s okay, if things get, a little, messy, because she has, what it takes, to set it back right again, and that, is the most important value that this mother taught, to her own, young!
Life, the Obstacle Course 