Is Victims & Perpetrators, “Subjective”???

Up for grabs here, does ANYBODY want to, take a WHACK at this one here???

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Still NO “takers”?  Fine, I’ll just, do this one too then.

Is victims, and perpetrators, “subjective”?  Meaning, that who says who is victim, and who is deemed, as the “perp?”  It’s, subjective, and yet, it isn’t?

In the case of, say???  MURDER or RAPE, the one who’s DEAD or RAPED, that’s, the, victims, there’s, NO doubt, and, you may think, that the perp (whoever s/he may be!) deserve to get PUNISHED for the murder, and you are RIGHT.

But, take a step back, if the victim had been, bullying the perp, and the “perp” finally HAD enough, like in those cases of spousal abuse, where the abused, finally, SNAPPED, and KILLED their abusers, then, it’s still, murders, but, you might think, that that loser or bitch got what’s coming her/his way.

And you no longer, pitied, the victim, because, the victim is THE perp, in that, dyadic relationship.

Is victims and perps, subjective, or objective?  It all depends, on the perspective, and we should still, take into considerations, of how the particular PERP, became the perp in the first place, because, if the victim stop getting victimized, then, the perp would have, NO way, of abusing the person anymore.

So yeah, there are still, NO victims, OR perps, only, ABUSERS and………ENABLERS, but hey, feel free to believe differently, as this is still, only, ONE WOMAN’s, O-P-I-N-I-O-N on this particular, issue here.

About taurusingemini

All I have to say, I've already said it, and, let's just say, that I'm someone who's ENDURED through a TON of losses in my life, and I still made it to the very top of MY game here, TADA!!!
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