Call this, counterconditioning if you will…
Unlearning, how? Once something’s, so deeply, ingrained into our minds, souls, and hearts (not to mention the body too!), it can’t be, unlearned.
Unlearning, this love had been, hard, especially when I’d been, longing for you to love me for years and years and years on end, and you never had, because you wouldn’t KNOW the first thing about, what love constitutes, what it consists of, ‘cuz you were, NEVER exposed to it growing up!
Unlearning, it’s actually, not that hard, think about it, all you gotta do, is to, enforce some punishment (positive and negative, whichever one works best!!!), and, surely enough, that unwanted behavior becomes, EXTINCT.
methods of, conditioning, like how you can, get a dog, to stop barking and biting when it sees you???
But something as natural as love is to human beings, it’s, not that easy, especially when all children are prewired, to love their parents, but the parents, can’t love their young back, due to something that went WRONG in their own, #$%^ED up childhoods…
So yeah, it is, gonna, take some time, to unlearn things, but once it’s done, you don’t have to, worry about it, like how after you’d TRAINED your dogs to pee outside, they start doing their businesses outside the house, because they KNOW that if they peed inside, they will, get, SMACKED on their asses? Yeah, it’s, kinda, like that!
Life, the Obstacle Course 