This, is, the CARDINAL rule of, marriage here!
There’s, something unspoken, dark, about EVERYBODY’s, marriage, and, because when we see other people’s marriages, we’re, on the outside looking in, that’s why, there’s, that REFLECTED, glassy, shiny surfaces about it, and we don’t, see the truth about what’s, actually, going on in someone else’s, marriage.
Something unspoken, dark, about EVERYBODY’s marriage, it’s just, that we don’t see it, because, when it comes to others, we maintain, our objectiveness (or at least, we TRY hard to!!!), and when it came turn, to LOOK at our own marriages, we started, taking those, colored lenses, off…
the other side of the fence here…
from the outside, looking in…illustration found online
Something unspoken, dark, about EVERYBODY’s marriage, we don’t see, because, we’re, NOT involved, with someone else, other than the significant others (1 @ a time, you IDIOTS!!!) we are, with, that’s why, we have the tendency, to believe, that someone ELSE’s husband/wife/children, is/are, WAY, better than our own, because, our lives, S-U-C-K!
And that, is how we all get stuck, in self-pity, and that, is NOT a good thing.
Once more, this is still from a SINGLE, MARRIED, DIVORCED woman, with my, DEAD, nonexistent, EMILY………
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