The decisions of donating your organs after you’d gone, to let the love you have for the world continue on, translated…
I will, NEVER forget the moment the door of the ambulance slid open, two children cried out “daddy!” in their babyish voices, the families and the neighbors surrounded him, and they’d told one another, “eldest brother is going to be a hero now, we will be taking care of the rest of the family here.”
The organ donations advisor, Yeh remembered this scene, even after so many years. This was a lesson of an ambulance driver back in 2007, who’d used his life, to teach the lessons of life, in the understanding of his own families, and blessings, he was, successfully in, getting his usable organs harvested and donated. And this scene became, the prototypes of the T.V. shows.
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Yeh said, as life is on the line, some will need the organ transplants to continue living, and at the same time, there are those, who are faced with the decisions of donating the organs, as the person who oversees the process, she’d witnessed the various kinds of families, and made the advice to the separate families on the act of getting the organs donated, and it can, go either way.
There was a college student who lived with his father, the families never discussed the will of donating the organs. As the father was in critical condition, the son told the mediator, that although his father never said it aloud, but he would want to help someone out, and wanted to make the decisions of donating his father’s organs for him, but his aunt was against it, because she never heard him say such a thing.
Yeh said, all the team can do, was to create a time of communication for them, in the end, the son made the choice, of donating his father’s organs. She also saw a ton of difficulties of being a daughter-in-law to the families, in the pressures of the loved ones, they still couldn’t, make the decisions for their already deceased husbands.
Yeh told of the communication problems of the families she encountered, and, it’d, drawn her back to the driver’s case. She said, awhile ago, she’d gone to an outing for the donors’ families, and, met up with the two young children of the driver who’d died. The teens said to Yeh, “Thank you so much for helping, to let dad come back home one more last time, then, return to the hospital to give the love he had for the world.”, Yeh couldn’t help but mumbled, “I should be the one who’s grateful, I saw on them, how strong the supports of a family can be.”
“You never know when is the right time to ask.” When is the right time to talk on this? Yeh said, the families here are used to watching the soaps while having their meals, that recently, there are, the Korean soaps that had the issues of organ donation, she was surprised, at how little she’d, talked with her family on such subjects, and, her families received a ton of information on the matter, from watching the programming on television, and started talking about the matter of organ donations.
And so, these, are the stories, of how those who’d died, chose to let their love for the world to continue on, by donating their organs, to those who are in desperate need of it, and, this is a matter, that people don’t normally discuss with the families enough.
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