Those Who were Down-and-Out in the Families are the Ones Who are Most in Need of Care & Concern

The attributions to what made this woman commit murder, and having the emotional supports from our loved ones, is the most important thing that’s needed, to prevent more tragedies like this one from keep on happening, off of the Front Page Sections, translated…

Awhile ago, the case of the seventy-year-old elderly getting beaten to death, the daughter was suspected of murdering her and taken into custody.  Based off of understanding, as Lin was a second-year middle school student, she’d been, sent to the U.S. to study, until she earned her master’s degree, and returned back here, although she’d taught at a university, but later, she’d become unemployed long-term, lived with her own mother, the police suspected that she became emotional unstable and lost it after an alteraction with her mother, then, stabbed her own mother to death.

Because of the high expectations on her, Lin was sent overseas to study at a young age, in a brand new culture, she may have been bullied by her peers; if there weren’t an adult nearby, or if there wasn’t anybody who’d offered her the emotional supports she was in needx of, it would, impact her life.  And, being exposed to an alternative culture than one’s own, the mother and daughter lived together, the mother had a hard time, dealing with how her daughter couldn’t, live up to her expectations, and, displeasures would be, unavoidable.  As the emotionally unstable had been pushed to the limits, the individual may do something that s/he will regret for life.

There are the conflicts that occurred, due to the expectation differences, it would be, truly, difficult, to heal back up.  And, if the individual was, compared to the siblings, then, it would be adding water to a grease fire.

Family is a best place to learn to socialize, to learn to become, independent, tell the difference between good and evil, and responsibilities, and when there’s this loss of functioning to the family, then, it’d become, a place that hurt!

My older sister and younger brother both got into their first-choice of high school, and I didn’t, on top of that, I’d, flunked for four semesters, but my mother never scolded me.  It’d, helped me sailed through the shames of not being able to excel in school.  As I’d earned my doctrate and returned home, I was faced with unemployment, and the bank’s repossessing my home, and all of my family members were all there, giving me the supports I’d needed, to help me through this difficult time.

My daughter wanted to study abroad, in the past, I’d, used Skype, and recently, she’d, flown abroad again, and I’d, used LINE to connect with her; even if I may have a different view compared to her, I’d still, shown her support, which helped her grow strong.

In interacting with people from another culture, there’s, a lot of trials going on, and, it wasn’t that easy, to accompany her, as she’d, returned back to live too.  And, we’d needed to, encourage our own young to keep on growing, to help them get back into the world here again, as well as set up that good relation with those they worked with, the family became, the sole support for those who’d come back after studying abroad.

And, all it takes, is a thought, and whether or not, you are, willing to, show the love and support for the ones you love dear.

And so, the writer of this article is attributing the tragedy of the murder of this woman’s mother to how the family didn’t give her enough emotional support, and that’s just it, sometimes, your family may NOT know how to offer you the kinds of support you are in need of, and, you would, need to find the support you’d, needed, on your own, and, it’s never easy!