And these, ARE the signs, that ALL you god damn, FUCKING (and your point being???) adults had, overlooked! From the Front Page Sections, translated…
There had been, an influx of child abuse cases, the C.E.O. of the Child Protective Foundations, Lin other than criticizing the matter, yesterday, she’d made the observations of how the workers of the nursery placed the blames on each other, dodged their responsibilities in the matters, she’d called out to the government, to fine the ill-fitted nursing centers, as well as the teachers who knew what was happening, but didn’t report these incidents of abuse to the authorities; and the parents should, interact with the school teachers, to make the observations of how well the students get along w, to ith the teachers in the classrooms.
Lin said, “You’d rather report on a suspicion, instead of looking the other way.” Children under the age of two couldn’t express themselves, and, the preschools, are the first line of defense, to prevent child abuse, and the schools needed to, report to the authorities when incidents of child abuse were, occurring, the Department of Social Services needed to encourage the school instructors, and naturally, these instructors would be, pressured by being on the “frontlines”, but at the same time, they’re, the only guards, and if something happens and the teachers don’t report, they should be, fined as well.
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Lin pointed out, that there was an influx of child abuse cases in these past two years, the parents had become, very fearful, how to select the right and proper nursery is what every parent cared about the most, she’d suggested, that the parents can arrive in the schools laters, to interact with other parents more; and should get into contact with the teachers more, to talk about how the children are doing in class, and, observe if the child becomes, too attached to her/him primary caretakers, and make the observations of how the child interacts with the teachers, and, don’t use work as an excuse, and select just ANY place to put one’s own young.
The clinical psychologist, Che stated, that the parents play a vital role in this, if children younger than the elementary years comes home and cry a lot, and started having the disturbances of their sleep patterns, refused to get up out of bed in the morning for classes, didn’t want to go to school, even bedwetting, and, pulling one’s own hair out, and other forms of self-mutilations, then, this is an indicator of the children being under great duress in school.
Children under two may have difficulties expressing themselves, and they may exert behaviors such as throwing one’s own toys, engaging in more violent play, or becoming aggressive, as the parents notice these symptoms, the child should be taken to the hospital immediately, and not just believing, that transferring one’s own young to a brand new school, then the symptoms will, go away, beaucse what happened, will keep on, persisting inside the child’s unconscious.
Che suggested, that parents MUST set up a parent-child time after school each and every single day, and the methods parents replied back to the children is important as well, never use sayings like, “Did you misbehave yourself?”, to negate the child’s experiences, otherwise, after a while, the child would stop telling the parents what is going on in school, and, the closeness between parents and children, is usually, the KEY to discover abuse in school.
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The department head of Hsinbei’s Social Services, Child and Teen Welfare section, Liu said, that parents must teach children HOW to protect themselves starting at a very young age, and they must set up means of communication with their young, so the kids would, disclose what was happening, no matter their age, there are, always going to be signs, of the child being mistreated, outside the homes.
Liu said, in asking children who are too young, you’d needed to use a calmer tone of voice, and asking the guiding questions, like who the child “touched”, what had happened, etc., etc., etc., otherwise, sometimes, the children would feel it was their faults, and try to dodge and evade answering the questions of the adults.
“You must interact, to help your children let their guards down”, Liu stated, collect the clues they’d giving off, plus using the objective facts, and use casual conversations you can have with your young, so the child feels save, supported, and listen to your child talk, and tell them, “it’s not your fault!”
And this, would be the way, that parents can find out about if anything bad is happening to their young at school or daycare, but, sometimes, these children are too young to verbalize to their adult counterparts, what had happened to them, and so, it’s easily overlooked, and besides, the adults are just, way too busy, making ends meet, they are more than likely to, shake off those “minor” details, like a kid bedwetting, when s/he already got potty trained, or how when a kid started having nightmares, and cries in the night, all of these, a signs, indicating, that something had, happened to your young children and they’re still, WAY too young to tell you what had happened to them!
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