Male as Silent Victims of Childhood Abuse…

Because you are ALL, socialized by that unwritten “rule” of “boys don’t cry” (says W-H-O? I can make all of y’all cry like babies here!!!), that is why, more than likely, males are going to remain silent about their abuse, besides, by admitting to your own abuses, that would be, a HUGE DENT on your OVERSIZED E-G-O, that is perhaps, why males don’t say anything about their own childhood abuse, besides, they’re, already grown, and so, why bother, rousing up that god DAMN storm, right?

But, these invisible injuries of your bodies, the violations of your bodies, by those whom you trusted, will keep on staying, unhealed on the inside, and, overtime, because you’d, ignored these injures too long, they’d become, suppressed, and, you may or may not even, remember them at all, because that, is how your young childhood selves, self-preserve…

the statistics…found online…shocking, isn’t it???

And, because males are more than likely, to EXPRESS their childhood abuse physically, they’re, more than likely, to victimize someone else, because the pains you’d carried, it didn’t go anywhere, it’s still, RIGHT where it was, it’s just, that as time piled on top, it’d become, suppressed deeper, deeper, and deeper, until you don’t even recall it, then one day, a randomly occurring event will rouse it all back up, and, you’ll start to, react to things too overtly.

All of this, is still because you LOSERS fail to DEAL with whatever the FUCK that’s happened to you, effectively, I get that as children, we couldn’t do anything about being abuse, because, more than likely, the ones who’d abused us were those who were, or caretakers, but, you’re all, adults now, so, why can’t you, outgrow that? Because, you’re still, STUCK in the mindset of that little boy who’d been, DAMAGED too many times, perhaps???

And, that would be, how the stories ends, abused boys become ABUSIVE men when they grow up, and, there’s, NO way of turning that around, unless you are extremely, hyper aware of your selves, but, you’re not, so………

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

About taurusingemini

All I have to say, I've already said it, and, let's just say, that I'm someone who's ENDURED through a TON of losses in my life, and I still made it to the very top of MY game here, TADA!!!
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