Reflections of the Anzo Sun incident, written by a social worker, the importance of BEING THERE for your own children whilst they were growing up, off the Front Page Sections, translated…
The child of the actress was arrested because of his threats of attack on the schools overseas, turning the story into an international focus, plus, there are, the influx of cases of child abuse, I’d wanted to share two points, professor Lang Hong wrote about the concepts of “being there”, that it doesn’t matter if you’re lenient or strict in disciplining your young, the key point here, is in how much time you spend with your young, and how much time you take, to participate in their lives.
Going abroad to study isn’t anything bad, but, as the child is growing, without the parents by her/his side, on some level, the parents had, delegated the responsibilities of raising their own young to someone else, and, it would be a shame, that the child grows up, without her/his parents there.
And, the cases of child abuse also tested the newly set up social safety net. Toward the analyses of the causes of child abuse, and, the preventative measures can be taken, and, this will, surely, greatly, reduce the prevalence of child abuse cases.
As a father and a social worker who works with the teenagers, I wanted to say, that life is naturally busy and hard, but, DO spend a little time each and every day, to be with your young! And, when you have a problem, seek out help immediately, I hope, that every child can grow up healthy, and, isn’t the actions and futures of each and every child, reliant on the parents?
And so, this social worker believed, that everything starts with the parents, and, he is right, because if you, as parents, don’t set a good example for your own young, then, how the HELL can you expect your children to behave themselves, after all, children still, LEARN from modeling, so, ACT right, parents!!!