What the divorces are doing to your young!!! Forced to pick sides, so, when the judge asks, “Who do you want to live with?”, what will be your answer, huh, kid??? From the Front Page Sections, translated…
The children who are used as the “rope” in their parents’ separations or divorces are called “Kickball Children”, yesterday, the Modern Women’s Association posted its statistics, that nearly forty-percent of children stuck in the middle are forced to choose between their parents; over twenty-two-percent showed signs of development regressions, refusing to go to school; over ten percent of these children are lying habitually.
The foundation’s statistic measures showed, that of a-fourth the 8,000 cases they’d stepped in, the couples came because they are getting a divorce, over fifty percent of the cases are for the problems of custody and visitation rights, with the divorced parents taking each other to court.
The supervisor, Huang of the Family center of the Modern Women’s Association said, that the children who are caught in the middle between the parents’ court battles are impacted in the psychological and physical senses, they may have low self-esteem, without self-confidence, or show problems in interpersonal relationships; there are some kids who are forced to choose between their fathers or mothers, and was brainwashed by one of the parents, and, demonized the other parent, to the point of cutting off contacts completely with the parents they don’t live with, and forced to hate either their fathers or mothers.
Huang said, even though the parents are divorced, the children still hoped that they can keep the relationship intact, but, as the cases went to court, things would turn bad fast, if the parents who are divorced can communicate well with each other, then, they can become “cooperative parents”, it would help the child adapt to the divorce greatly. She suggests, that parents who had been through the bad arguments needed to practice repeatedly, to stop being on the opposing sides, and start being “parents” to their young!
And so, you do SEE, how your divorces are causing so much misery for your young now, right? Because, EVERY single kid wants to have a mommy and a daddy who live together happily, but this, is rarely the case, because, the adults had problems, and they failed to resolve whatever differences they may have, and, they’d, caused stresses on their own offspring’s lives.