Here we have, a “success” story from the counseling program offered from the above, from the Newspapers, translated…
For some of the abusers, after counseling, they can return back to their families, some had reduced their own negative emotions. The fifty-year-old Mr. Chen had gotten violent with his own wife after he gets drunk, the restraining order had only allowed him to stay at a distance as his children go to school. After the counseling courses, although he’s still separated from his own wife currently, but as a “older schoolmate”, he’d shared his personal life experiences with others in the program, reminding them, to NOT make the same mistakes he had.
The C.E.O. of Hsu-Li Foundation, Jiang who’s in charge of these behavioral training courses said, that Chen believed that he loved his own young, but now, as his children saw him, they’d, turned their heads away, it’d hurt him deeply; Chen had even suspected, that it was his wife, who’d, said things that’s made the children turned on him, he’d become, emotionally unstable once.
Jiang pointed out, that after counseling, Chen slowly found a release for his negativity and pressure, although for now, he still couldn’t get back together with his wife, but his emotions were calmer now, he’s now, sharing his own personal experiences in the group courses, to encourage others who are going down the same path to make a change.
The sixty-year-old Mr. Lin, after retiring, he’d managed his family like they were in the military, and caused his wife to separate from him, took his son away too, and she’d even asked for a divorce. Mr. Lin needed the anti-depressants, in the end, he’d come to the white ribbon learning center, and started the courses in intimacy and group learning courses, his wife forgave him, and they’d made amends.
And so, how the HECK do you know, that he isn’t going to return to his old ways of treating you? Perhaps, it’s how this man was willing to make a change, realizing that the way he’d interacted with his loved ones wasn’t good, and his willingness to show that he was willing to change, by enrolling in the courses, but, how do you know, that he wouldn’t, return to his old ways of becoming violent again? You don’t, and, it’s a huge gamble, ladies, and are you, willing to, TAKE that chance? I know I’m not, because people don’t change, not that easily, and that, is based off of MY own personal experiences!