Here’s a perfect solution of how the inheritances should be, split up, came up by the daughter-in-law, who should most often, remain hushed in the matter, translated…
I was having a chat with my good friend, A, and I’d learned, that she’d been, troubled by the splitting up of assets in her husband’s family.
A’s father-in-law died an elderly man, and her husband’s siblings started disagreeing with each other while he was sick and bedridden, but thankfully, the disagreements were, resolved, and now, they’re at the steps to split up the assets. A said, that because in getting everybody to agree, they’d needed complete consensus, it’d made those involved feel tried and fatigued, and although she’s only the third daughter-in-law, she’d done things according to her in-laws and her older sisters-in-laws, but, there are some things, that’s caused her to get all emotional too.
A’s second eldest brother-in-law after he’d graduated from university, he’d gone on the seas to intern, and died in an accident, the in-laws and A’s husband already agreed, that in the future, they are going to give the second eldest son’s plates to the youngest son to look after. Before the splitting of the assets, A’s mother-in-law told her in secret, because the son who’d died had NO properties under his name, and, seeing how the youngest grandchild will be keep up with the offerings of the second eldest uncle, her father-in-law had, wanted to register their home to him before he died.
A believed, that this would make the eldest brother-in-law angry, and worried, that they will NOT get along as well as they had, and asked her husband to think of a way to resolve beforehand, and because they already made a pact, that when the assets were split up, the daughters-in-law have no say. As the mother-in-law mentioned the above beliefs, the eldest son naturally had something to say, stated, that even if the mother was to move in with the younger brother, the ancestral home should still be registered under the younger brother’s name, then, the elderly mother’s living expenses will be totally up to the younger son to take care of, he won’t spare a dime.
And, the mother-in-law who’d not thought thoroughly enough agreed to this, A say her husband started stuttering, and she’d immediately gently consoled with her mother-in-law, said, that there wouldn’t be a problem for her son, to keep the ancestral plates of her second eldest brother-in-law, but, registering the ancestral home to the youngest son, would cause him to not need to work hard, that the house should be registered under the eldest brother-in-law and his younger brother together, so the two sons can work hard together, to keep the house their father had bought, that it’s, a better idea. And thankfully, her mother-in-law had, agreed to her idea, and successfully, dissolved this issue of splitting of the assets between the brothers.
I’d asked how A can come up with such a sound solution? She said that she also has a son, and can understand the reason of how a harmonious household make everything runs more smoothly, she’d not wanted her mother-in-law’s sorrows, to cause her to lose, yet another son.
If all the offspring has this sort of a belief, all the parents in the world should have peaceful elderly years coming to them.
And so, as a daughter-in-law, this woman really didn’t have a place to say, how her mother-in-law was to, split up the assets, but, she’d come up, with a perfectly satisfactory solution to resolve this usually hard to resolve issue of splitting of the assets, which is why the mother-in-law was opened to her suggestions on how the matter should be handled.
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