A “warning” for the too-desperate!!! From the Front Page Sections, translated…
Clinical psychologist, Che pointed out, that people who got scammed by online dating, online friendships, were mostly those who lacked physical interactions with others in their realities, not knowing “how to have an intimate relationship with others”; the Fuying Technical University’s counselor, Wu told, that there are, multiple identities that are masked online, filled up with all sorts of dreamy imaginations, and in reality, they’re, to fulfill the lacking of intimacy in one’s reality, and, as “the dreams burst”, the individual will be engaged, in this long and winding tug-of-war for a very, very long time, and it takes, even longer, to get, fully recovered.
In the cases that Dr. Che treated, there were, the rich second generations who’d made friends online, and was scammed by women in China, made his household a mess, his father even threatened to disown him. She’d analyzed and discovered, that the personality formation of the child has to do with the environment the individual was raised in, the individual’s mother was tough on him, and, when he couldn’t be perfect, she’d become, really harsh with him, causing him to lack in self-confidence.
And, this second generation rich man has a closed in life, a very tiny social circle, rarely interacted with his peers, and, was estranged with his own family, he’d lacked someone he can pour his heart out to, and only through his interactions online, could he, finally open up. And because of his lacking in self-confidence, his introvert personality traits, his low opinions of himself, he could successfully find someone to interact with in real life, and, as someone sweet-talked him online, he went, head first in.
Wu analyzed, some people fulfilled the lacking of “emotional attachments” they’d lacked in reality, maybe, they felt they couldn’t trust anybody they’re with physically, and the anonymity from online, that sense of curiosity, it’d, made them more comfortable, being themselves.
And so, this, is why it’s, easy, for those ladies who are too desperate for love, to fall into these traps, set by loser males, because they’d targeted your need for love, and, when it came to love, all women would fall easily, because when it came to love, we just, toss our senses of reason out the window!