Communicating in an Alternative Way

The end result was, still as the woman hoped for, because she’d used techniques, and her research, to finally persuade her husband, translated…

Being a husband and wife is probably the MOST important relationship in life, but because we’re from different families, we have colliding values that needed to be readjusted, my husband and I got into a difference of opinion on changing our residence.

Ten years after we married, the house we lived in started becoming old, plus the newly build apartment complex had, blocked out the sun, it’d made me think about buying a new place.

But my husband was born and raised in the countryside, he’d believed, that changing properties is something major, besides, other than having some small faults, our place back then wasn’t that bad, and so, he was, against moving.  I could understand him, so I’d not, pushed it, instead, I’d started, collecting the information on moving, paid attention to the housing prices, and, gone to visit the newly built places on my own time, and, gotten advices from friends and relatives on their home buying experiences.

I’d silently studied for over a year, and, after I’d, collected the data from all fronts, I’d started discussing with my husband on this matter again, and, put out the data I’d collected, along with the assessment of our household economics, and this time, he’d, said yes.

After we were on the same page, it’d become, more efficient for us, to tackle this.

We’d gone to see the properties then, my husband was always able to use his male view, and brought a lot of things I’d failed to notice to my attention; and so, we’d, slowly hunted, and by the third year, we were finally, able to, move in, to the new home that fitted our requirements.

From this experience, it’d made us both realized, that when we have a difference of opinion, we’d only needed to let go of our persistence, and seek out what benefitted us as a family, not only would it benefit our love for each other, it can greatly reduce the frictions that we have with one another too.

So, because you wanted a new place, you’d, collected the data, and, presented a fully researched proposal to your husband, and, the timing was right, so, he’d, agreed, and, this just showed, how important it is, for the two of you, to communicate, to reach common grounds when you disagree on things.