My Girlfriend Treats Me Like a Fool, Lying Through Her Teeth

A man, cheated on by his girlfriend, and she’d had him, fooled, for too long already, a Q&A, translated…

Q: She’d been cheating on me for a year and a half now, and I’d become, a “spare” to her…

People often see, that in love, women are the ones who were taken advantage of, but H who’d graduated from college two years ago, believed, that women, are masters of lies, because his girlfriend lied to him from the start and cheated on him, without even, any sense of embarrassment, treated him like a fool!

H and his girlfriend started cohabiting together back in their junior year, he’d planned to marry his girlfriend when he turns twenty-eight.  As he’d told this to her, she was ecstatic, and gave him kisses on the cheeks repeatedly; and now, thinking back, that’s, probably the best time they’d shared.

like this???  and the fool doesn’t even have a CLUE!!!  Not my photograph…

After they graduated, they’d started working in different fields, in order to save up for the marriage, H worked very hard, he’d pulled in his overtimes every single evening, without a word of complaint.  His girlfriend worked in the service industries, and the two of them slowly, not saw one another as often anymore.  When H was pulling in his overtimes, his girlfriend would go out to eat with her girlfriends, because she hated staying in that small suite all alone, waiting for him to come home.  Slowly, his girlfriend started coming home later than he had, but said, that she was in the night clubs, drinking with her girlfriends, that he had, nothing to worry about.

Recently, she’d gone on a business trip to Shanghai, they’d agreed to use webcam to talk to one another daily.  But, on the first day they’d conferenced on webcam, H saw his girlfriend in the bathrobe provided by the hotel, with her hair unkempt, and, there seemed to be noises coming from the corners of the room.  H asked her if there was someone else there?  But the girlfriend told him, “No there isn’t, it’s just the T.V.”  But at which time, H saw that there was a pair of thick black-rimmed glasses on the small round table behind her, suddenly, it’d dawned on H, “Your manager’s glasses are in your room!”

Later on, H learned, that his girlfriend had been cheating on him for over a year and a half, she’d not left H, because her manager didn’t get divorced………

A My Advice

The love that two people shared will change with the passing time and the distance in between, so, those who’d dated during school, normally wouldn’t last until afterwards.  And, as men were, trained by women, they will become, more mature.  Losing love isn’t necessarily always bitter, take it like a lesson of life, and you will learn how to get along with someone else better with the passing of time.

yup, it’s like this, and this SUCKER is sleeping right through all of it too!!!  Not my photo…

So, this just showed, how there are, so many variables in life, that we are unaware of, and can’t be prepared for, and this woman treated this man as her spare, she was in love with the manager of her office, but he’s married, and chances of him leaving his wife is next to nil, and that, was why this woman used this man, as her spare, and, this man now has the option of breaking up with the woman, and find a better love for himself.