You are getting, EXACTLY WHAT you DESERVED, CHEATER!!! Translated…
Everything in life is easy, only losing in love, there’s, no cure for that, and we can only, resolve it with time, nobody can help us out. Being young, and lost in love, you can have the time to recover, as you’re still younger. Comparing to the younger generations’ optimism, the impact from losing love in midlife, the levels of the damages, are much more complicated; other than dealing with that emptiness of losing love, the fragile self-confidence level, there’s no more courage, to strike out again, and, that sense of helplessness over what’s to come in the future, that would be, the HARDEST to overcome!
A male friend who’s already married, left home when he was younger, and started dating a divorced woman, in the earlier times, the other woman wanted to have a rightful status, but my friend didn’t answer her request, to divorce his own wife, and over a decade had passed, the woman no longer mentioned marrying him anymore. Recently, my friend who’s aged gone in and out of the hospitals several times, it’d made him realize, that importance of having a companion at old age, and although the other woman was willing, to look after him wholeheartedly, but he’d believed, that he’d needed a marriage, to solidify the status he had with her, and mentioned how he wanted to marry her. But the woman had, changed her mind now, she’d no longer wanted the bad reputation of being a “spare”, plus her children with her ex don’t agree with her remarrying again either, and stated to him, that everything will go, according to how it’s meant to happen.
Worrying that she may not love him anymore, my friend became worried, and recently, he’d heard that the woman had interacted with her ex with her kids, setting up with him, he’d become, even MORE insecure, he’d become, depressed now.
Back when he was younger, my friend didn’t handle things well enough, he didn’t take advantage of the time, and now, as he’d thought about sorting through the matter, it’s already, too late. Love in midlife, comes and goes so quickly. Comparing to the hardships he’d faced now, he couldn’t help, but reexamine his own past, and, heaven only knows, how many regrets were, already buried too deep, it’s too late, now that he’d wanted to make amends, or repent for what he’d done.
So, this, is called, KARMA! You’d LEFT your wife for the other woman, and yet, you’d chosen NOT to divorce your wife, because you wanted to someone, to offer you a softer place to fall, and now, the other woman doesn’t want you either anymore, whatever will you DO??? It’s still, ALL on you, LOSER!!!