Life, the Obstacle Course

After the Family Went Out for a Movie, as She’d Returned Home, She’d Written Down Her Thoughts After She Saw the Movie, “In the Elementary Years, Her Thoughts Were Already, Mature for Her Age”, It’d Caused Everybody to Feel Awe with Her

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Call it, the DISSECTION of the family dynamics after this teen had committed suicide if you will, from the Front Page Sections, translated…

The female student, Wu who’d committed suicide was raised with a firm education by her parents with higher degrees, her mother once posted on FB, that when her youngest was only eleven, she’d said, “You did not yell at me today”, even her own daughter noticed her changing; the mother, apparently, had high expectations of herself, after she’d introspected after her youngest told her, she’d softened down her tone of voice and started being kinder to her young, hoped, that she could start by praising her children more, to become, an “adult with high quality.”

The female student’s mother gave all she had to educating her young, she’d once posted on Facebook, that as her daughters were in the fifth grade, when they’d gone out for a movie on the weekends, she’d demanded that they wrote a “movie report”, and from her daughter’s writing, she’d noted how wonderful a writer she was, that she could maturely state what she’d thought; those who knew her left the message on her FB, “having such adult beliefs in the elementary years, you must be very proud!”

And, from the birthday card to the mother from the eldest, it’d shown how active the mother participated in the daughters’ school.  The eldest mentioned, that she was grateful toward her mother for teaching her the sciences and math, to help her do well on her sectional exams, that the next sectional exams would be even harder, that she’d looked forward to working with her mom on studying; and said, that this semester, their relationship improved, that she hoped this continues, hope to live up to her parents’ expectations, work hard, and act right.”

The mother stated on FB, that the youngest had been misbehaving a lot since she was younger, four years ago, she’d exercised her curiosity, wanted to see what would happen, if she blocked the pipes in the bathrooms, and, it’d caused the bathrooms to flood, after she was scolded and punished for what she’d done, she’d written a couple hundred-character confession, it’d mentioned how she “shouldn’t do bad things in the wrong places, that she will live up to the standards of being a good student from now on, to not mess around anymore.”

So, this, is the result, of the parents being too tough on her performance, and having an outstanding older sister, she must’ve felt that her parents focused more on her older sister because she’s doing better in school, and, imagine growing up in this sort of a high-stress environment, it’s a wonder that this kid didn’t do something drastic sooner!

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