A Letter from a Battered Woman

In desperate need of ADVICE here!  A Q&A, translated…

A self-claimed no way out, Ms. A, wrote a third time to ask for help.  Her husband is abusive, and a lot of things had the two of them fighting, the husband believed, that a woman who doesn’t follow the order of her husband lacked discipline, and chased A out of her own home.

this might not be enough of a wakeup call…photo from online…

Recently, it’d, gotten worse, he’d gotten A’s youngest brother-in-law in the matter too, in order to help his older brother, his younger brother found a fortune teller, and accused A of being a woman who brought bad luck, making A’s status even lower in her in-law’s household.  At the end, A went to court, SUED her husband for abuse, but because A was forcefully hospitalized by her husband’s demands, and was diagnosed as mentally unstable (A believed that the doctor was bought by the husband, that she may need a more objective hospital to get the correct diagnosis); A, up to here, only wants to get divorced, not demanding any alimony, but her husband doesn’t allow, A believed, it was because of how he cared too much about his status.

A My Advice

Because Ms. A wrote three consecutive letters so pressingly, she’d lost the court case, became homeless.  But her husband still used her as his punching bag, so, I’m not clear on what the situation was with her really, we naturally want her to get out of this trying life of hers; and if the abuse was falsely claimed, we’d wanted her husband’s name to be cleared too.  I hope that Ms. A can collect all the evidence of the abuse she’d suffered at the hands of her husband, and get a friend who understands what was happening to you, and is willing to testify, then, you can go to the Taiwan Fund for Children & Family to get some legal advices.

nor is this…not my photo still…

If the claims of domestic violence had been proven, at least, you’ll be granted a divorce, and, it can be helpful, to assess the situations, to see how Ms. A can be helped, in getting back to living from day to day.  If the domestic abuse is truly serious, then, you can find a women’s shelter for your own protection.  From the letters I’d received from Ms. A, it’s a bit, chaotic, and helpless, you need to prioritize what’s most pressing for you right now (if you’re abused or kept captive, do find a women’s shelter first), and make your next moves accordingly.

You must first, help yourself, for someone else to be able to, help you out.

So this, is a dire situation, with the woman living under the serious physical abuse of her husband, and, the only way to get herself out of this jam is by filing for divorce with the courts, but, before this, she’d needed to collect ALL the evidence of the husband’s abuse on her, like documenting her own injuries, getting the reports from the hospital’s injury examinations, etc., etc., etc., to ensure that she has, at least, a fighting chance of successfully getting divorced from her abusive husband!

by the time you finally wake up, this would be what it looks like…

too late, because you’re, already, DEAD!!!  Not my photo still..