Why doesn’t this kindergartener want to go to school? It’s, up to you, parents, to figure that out, as she is with, limited vocabulary, to tell you what is exactly, going on at school with her, translated…
My youngest started disliking school recently, but I couldn’t get the why out of her. I’d privately contacted her school teacher, she saw nothing out of the ordinary either.
it will be okay! The mother said, to the child…photo from online…
And so, we can just, coaxed her to go to school every single day, but one day, she was really screaming and crying, so, I’d told my wife, then, maybe, we should take her out of the first year of kindergarten then, just enter her into the second year of kindergarten then? But my wife disagreed, said that she was four already, and she may only be having problems, adjusting to schedules of school, and how to get along with a group of children her age.
And, I’d really, wanted to, understand WHY it was she didn’t want to go to school, I’d, guided her constantly, and finally, I’d, used the wordings she could understand, to have her express to me, with her limited vocabulary—reason was, that she’d felt the school was too ugly, the teacher ugly, her classmates, ugly too.
Ugly? I knew, that there are only a handful of adjectives she knew, and only understood descriptive terms like “ugly”, “smelly”, and “bad”. The school limited her in her expressions, made her felt suppressed. Toward my naïve, and upbeat youngest daughter, I’d needed to tell her where the boundaries are gently and firmly too.
I’d recalled once, that my wife was disciplining my eldest, and she’d, dodged left and right, my youngest stood in front of my eldest, with her arms opened up wide, wouldn’t let her mother “take advantage” of her big sister. We were both, very moved by my youngest’s actions, although she’d not known, about our intentions in the first place.
just say “NO”, to school! Not my photograph…
What if my youngest child’s sense of justice was shown in front of her classmates? I believe, she, being so small-framed, wouldn’t have it easy at all. Naturally, for her, the classmates who’d, ignored her, were all, not pretty. My youngest, dear, I think, it’s, all because, you have, a beautiful heart.
So, this young child, used her limited vocabulary, her limited ways of expressions, to tell her parents, that she disliked school, and, the parents hadn’t quite figured out the reason yet, and, until they finally know why their child didn’t like school, their young child won’t want to go to school, as children this young, needed to feel safe, especially, when they’re, just, starting out in their lives, entering into school………
Life, the Obstacle Course 