So, you found a nice man, but he’s, unreliable, which means that at the end of the day, he’s still, NOTHING, a Q&A, translated…
Q My Boyfriend is Very Generous, But, He Couldn’t Keep a Steady Job…
Ms. Shin started dating her coworker at age twenty-seven, the man at first was very passionate, and even made her the promises of “we’re in love, and if you get pregnant, then I shall marry you.”, Shin foolishly believed him, without using ANY contraceptives, and, in just two short months, she’d, gotten knocked up. At which time, the man, couldn’t even make his own ends meet, couldn’t possibly take care of a family, even as his own home was struck by tragedies, and used the excuse of how it wasn’t right for him to marry for these next two years, and moved out, then, he’d, quit his job, and disappeared. And ever since, Shin discovered, that the old home address that the man gave to her, wasn’t even real.
And so, Shin became, an unwed mother.
As her child was five, she’d met a manager at a construction site, Weng, Weng is extraordinarily kind, very generous, bought her several items of over $10,000N.T.’s each, but, as the end of the month came, he’d not have any money to tie him over. After she’d beaten around the bushes, and observed him quietly, she’d found, that Weng was once, from a rich family, gotten used to living in the high life, didn’t need to make his own way; later on, as his family went bankrupt, that, was when he was, forced to work.
Actually, from what Weng makes right now, it is, enough, to keep a family going, but, he was, once a rich kid, and, his favorite pastime is playing mahjong, and would keep on switching jobs, he’d been with four, five girlfriends, and, there are, no results that came from his past relationships, and he was four years junior to Shin. Shin started hesitating, could this love, be fruitful at the end or not?
A My Advice:
Weng doesn’t seem like an awful man, it’s just that his family was once rich, and so now, even as he’d become poorer, he’d still lived in the high styles he’d lived in before. These couple of years, he was, getting money from his family, and if he marries, it will be quite hard, as his wife and child. He too told, that it’s still, too early, for him to think about marriage, and the reasons why he and his exes broke up has to do with him not willing to commit yet, and his lifestyle. So, I’m sure, that Weng wouldn’t be into marriage, I hope, that Shin won’t be foolish enough, to get pregnant again, work hard yourself, and find a more steady and stable man instead!
So, you have the tendency, to attract LOSERS, the first one was a good-for-nothing LEECH that still SUCKED his parents dry, and this second man, he looked okay on the outside, but when she dug deeper, he was just like her ex, and, when it comes to marriage, you’d rather find a man who’s not rich, but with the hardworking mannerisms, instead of some rich kid once, who has everything provided for him hand and foot, someone who can’t even withstand the trials of his own life, and, if he can’t even take care of himself, how the HELL can you expect him to take care of you, and/or your own children, huh?
Life, the Obstacle Course 