My Daughter’s Words Woke Me Up, Got Me Away from Flirtation with the Man Who’d Helped Me Get My Job

If this keeps going, we can all guess, what will happen, and so, it’s best, that we sever it off right now! A Q&A, translated…

Q: Falling into that Trap of Gentleness, Almost Forgot, that He’s Already Married, and Has Children Too

The 42-year-old single mom, U, a decade ago after her divorced, raised up her five-year-old on her own. Her ex never fulfilled the agreed-upon alimonies, gladly, her own mom put up over $100,000N.T.s to help her through, she was able to, buy a breakfast shop, the mother and daughter would get up before light to prepare, and the shop also offered simple lunches as well, and life had finally, settled. U’s mother didn’t want the loan she’d given to her daughter back, and so, U started giving her mother $10,000N.T. a month for taking care, but a few short years later, her mother had a stroke, and died shortly thereafter.

All the money her mother had saved up, went into the medical and burial fees; during which time, U stopped operating her shop, and started spending what she’d saved up. A frequent customer, Yong who’d learned of U’s predicament, advised that she go to the café he and his friend had invested in, to learn and to work. Back then, her daughter was in middle school, U can work longer hours, and, selling her breakfast shop gave her a sum of money, and without the pressures of the rents from the shop, so U changed jobs. And her daughter was more than behaving, after work, she’d always helped out around the house.

if he’s single, then, yeha, it’ll be fine, but if he’s with someone else, then, SLAM on that brake!!!  Not my photo…

Later, Yong would always frequent the café where U works, took her out to eat, then, drove her home. And naturally, as life had always been hard on U, she’d, fallen into this comfortable lifestyle. One evening, her daughter told her, “I know that you’re lonely, mom, you should have a boyfriend, but, Uncle Yong is married and has children, how can you still go out with him?”

Her daughter was right, and U started panicking, not knowing what she needs to do.

A My Advice

Although the daughter is still quite young, but she could see things so very clearly. Once a man who’s married kept a female confidant, it’s only a matter of time, until he starts to have an affair. And, if you’d become a spare, and as things go bust, it will get ugly, at which time, you won’t, even have your job anymore. U can thank Yong for his help, and tell him clearly, that she’d felt improper, if they get too close, and start distancing from him, and it’s time, that you hone up on your skills, and find another job.

So, this, is the prelude of an affair, it hadn’t happened yet, but, if everything keeps going, then, it will, become, a FULL-BLOWN affair, and, the columnist was right on advising the woman to hone up on her skills, to find another job, to sever off from this man who’d lent her a hand when she’d needed it the most, after all, he is, already, someone else’s husband!

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About taurusingemini

All I have to say, I've already said it, and, let's just say, that I'm someone who's ENDURED through a TON of losses in my life, and I still made it to the very top of MY game here, TADA!!!
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