Unwillingly, he’d, taken up the role of the “protector” of the family, since he was younger, whenever his father had a bad day, or came home drunk, he’d, hurt his mother, without realizing, that he was there, watching, behind closed doors, and, he’d made a promise to himself, that he shall, grow up sooner, so, his mom won’t be living under the storms of his own father’s abuse anymore!
Unwillingly, he’d, taken up the role of the “protector” of the family, he’d, watched out, for his loved ones, worried endlessly, that they won’t, come home safe at night. He had, without knowing, and unknowingly, taken up the role of the protector, of his family, and, he’d, carried the burdens of this cross, until he’s, in mid-life.
not my “diagram”…
Unwillingly, taken up of the role of the “protector” of the family, this usually happens, in a family where one parents is abusive (in all ways!!!), or that when the parents FAILED to take care of the children, and because the parents FAILED, miserably, in their roles, naturally, the children are, MADE to take on adult responsibilities, that’s NOT even theirs to carry!
Unwillingly, taken up the role of the “protector” of the family, this, was what she was forced to do, because her father was unfaithful to her mother, she’d felt, that it was, her responsibilities, to stop giving her mother any MORE stresses, any MORE troubles, and, she’s, lost, more than she can EVER measure in her own process of growing up……………
Life, the Obstacle Course 