Life, the Obstacle Course

Just Don’t Cook if You Don’t Want to

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The thoughts of a working woman, translated…

My husband and I are regular office workers, in order to save the money, we’d started, cooking the meals at home.  It’s just, that by the time we arrived home after work, we are both, starved and, we’d not even have enough energies, to sit ourselves down and eat.

Actually, when I’m in a good mood, I can tolerate the annoyances of my husband, sagging on the couch after work, just waiting for supper to be served, but unfortunately, by the time I’m off work, my moods are mostly foul.  And, my husband just, couldn’t get a clue, once, I was so hungry and so tired as I walked into our house, and, he’d still done what he’d usually done; I’d gotten so furious, screamed out at him, “Why don’t you just go and marry the T.V. set then!”, he’d replied, in this shocking tone of voice, “You’d told me to take care of myself, and I had, now, that’s not enough for you?”, he’d managed to, silence me.

from online…

Yeah, because being tall, he’d turn the kitchen into after a flood; and him cooking would make the kitchen look like a battlefield.  What’s worse was, I’d asked him to get a quarter leg at the markets, and, he could come back, with ALL the bamboo shoots that an elderly woman sold, because she looked so sad.  And so, I’d told him, to take care of himself, and ever since, he’d gotten, the “No-Jail” card for kitchen duties.

But, I’m only an entry level worker, and there was NO chance that I can come home happy after work every single day.  But, who doesn’t want to have a warm meal served as one gets off work?  And on this, my husband replied, “If you’re too tired to cook, just don’t, let’s go out then!”, yeah, it’s just, for a meal!

Cook as I wanted to, and, when I don’t, we would, go out to eat, “mealtime” can be so simple!  Why are women still making it hard for themselves?

“how can I do this???”  Photo from online…

Yeah, this just shows how different the men and women’s brains worked, men usually think in straight lines, you give them a problem, they give you the answer that they think up the fastest, which is why, men and women get into fights, and, in this article, the husband is right, if his wife feels too tired, then, she shouldn’t cook, they can just, go out to eat, but, the woman here may have other considerations like how the foods aren’t healthy, or how there are more and more tainted food items being sold outside the home, that, is why she’d, insisted on cooking the meals herself.

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