How to Tell if You’d Spoiled Your Children

A must-read for ALL parents!!! Translated…

The parents can spoil their young, so long as they don’t spoil them rotten. But, what, is considered as spoiling rotten? Sometimes, the outside world can’t define it for us.

When my younger son was two, he’d slapped my thighs, and I’d not scolded him; you would say that I’m, spoiling him, I was the only one who believed, that in two more months, he’d stopped slapping my thighs. When my son was fourteen, he’d given me a bad face every single day, and I’d still, spoken very gentle toward him; you will say, that I’d, spoiled him rotten, but only I knew, he couldn’t even handle himself, that he’d not had the excess energies, to handle anybody else. When my older daughter was fifteen, she’d cared less, if she’d arrived late to school, and I’d written an absent excuse for her; you’d say, that I’d, spoiled her, but only I know, that she’d, beaten herself up harder over it than anybody else could.

an example of a spoiled rotten adult!!!  from online…

Did the children get spoiled rotten, so long as I know, that I’d not, spoiled them rotten, I have NO need, to validate that to anybody else.

There was a friend who’d asked me boldly, “Did my child get spoil rotten by me?”, I’d paused for a long time, “Your child isn’t spoiled rotten, but, you are!” the unease she’d just set down, was picked back up again.

I’d told her, “You’re not patient toward your child, and, find reasons to, scream and yell at them, your husband, your parents all felt very awful for your child, but, they’d not told you this, that this, is considered, spoiling.”

looks like the child’s the bad one, doesn’t it???  not my photo still…

There are, more adults who are, spoiled rotten, and less children, who are, spoiled rotten. It’s difficult, for the adults to change, but easier, for the children to. So long as you’re willing to change, you will, win back, your own lives.

So, this, should be alarming, that the ADULTS in the populations are the ones who were spoiled rotten, not us, children, and because you judge your kids behaviors, when they start crying, you’d scolded them, because you’re in public, and your children’s cries are getting on your nerves, but, you’d not even taken a SECOND’s time to see WHAT exactly it was, that your children are crying about, and that makes you adults, the ones, who are, SPOILED, NOT us!!!