From the Front Page Sections, translated…
There had been, a recent flux of cases of murders caused by love, the psychiatrists analyzed, that modern day people longed for that intimate relationship, but didn’t understand how to get along, the psychiatrists suggest that the partners should learn emotional control, to empathize with each other, and, when needed, seek out professional help, “Don’t let your intimate relationships turn deadly!”
The department manager of psychiatry of the Veterans’ Memorial Hospital in Kaohsiung, Lu stated, that a lot of the couples who’d come to sought out advice, whether it be on the issues of family, of love, the education of children, or the household economics, the biggest problem was that both sides felt, “my partner didn’t do things as I asked her/him to.”; and when someone doesn’t get her/his way, s/he would start mistreating her/his partners with physical or verbal abuses, and afterwards, just apologize, problems solved, they’d never, talked it out, and, day after day, week after week, year, after year, the love turned into resentment, and resentment into hate, and the husband and wife became, enemies.
Dr. Lu said, that the “raging emotions” cause the most damages in the intimately related family members, a lot of the husband and wife, or couples, in relating to one another intimately, didn’t know how or when, to control their emotions, he said, “you need to be extremely kind, to those who are closest to you, otherwise, your family members will all, leave you one by one!”
This, is how we shouldn’t take those who are closest to us for granted, but because we feel the safest around them, that, is why we feel, that it would be okay, to express our anger, or resentment, or other negative emotions to them especially, without realizing, that hey, they don’t have the obligations, to become our emotional punching bags!