You’re the one who chose this BAD path to go down, so, why don’t you deal with it??? Oh wait, you want someone to tell you what to do, it’s, easier that way, isn’t it??? A Q&A, translated…
Q: I became a third-wheel, should I have the child I’m carrying or not?
D, the single mom, six months ago, due to a hand injury, couldn’t work any more, and, in an online game, she’d met L who was seven years younger than she is, and they’d, hit it off, L even helped her auction things online, to help her with the household finances, they’d, started dating naturally. At which time, D learned, that L is already married, with two children ages eight and three, she knew, she was, on an impossible road, but because they are in the infatuous stage of love, neither one of them can let each other go.
Not long thereafter, L’s wife found out about them, and wanted L to break it off with D, but seeing how her husband became, lost, she could only, halt the thoughts; and so, D, who’s living in Kaohsiung with her son, and L, who lives with his wife in Chiayi, started going back and forth from each other’s cities. But L’s wife is nowhere NEAR giving up on her marriage yet, kept pushing D to leave, however, L hoped, for a threesome, and, during this time period, a lot of things had, happened, and all were too, awful.
Later on, L decided to divorce his wife, but couldn’t bear let his own daughter go. His wife asked for a $30,000N.T. per month in alimony and child support, L considered how after he’d moved out of his home, there are, living expenses to consider, and only wanted to pay $20,000N.T. in alimony and child support, he and his wife started having the arguments, and, this caused L to slowly, feel upset with D too.
At this time, D found, that she was, pregnant. L became, even MORE worried over the economics, he’d gone back and forth on what he wanted D to do with her unborn child, abortion at one time, having it the next second, because he’d wanted a product of their love, but, he’d kept telling her, that he couldn’t let go of his own two daughters that he had with his own wife, hoped, that he could live with them, but by this way, L’s wife will totally move in too.
D felt how hesitant L had become, she’d told him out of anger, “Do as you will, I have no comment one way or another.” Can D, who’s stuck now, really easily, break it all off? She doesn’t know if she should have her child, or what her next steps are?
A My Advice
When a woman falls for a married man, she would always say, that she didn’t intend to, break someone else’s family apart, but, once the two had started, actually, the damages are, already done, at the same time, you’d, ruined your own life too. And, getting pregnant under these circumstances, will make things even MORE complicated too, D told me she’d wanted to leave all of this behind, to have her child on her own, but, I believe, that if she does that, then, the seed of L being stuck on her had bene, planted. And, it would be hard, for a woman, to raise up two kids on her own, besides, keeping yourself tangled in all of this mess, is more painful, isn’t it? I advise, that D must, think thoroughly about this.
So, the “expert” here is right this time, that the woman should just, ABORT, but, how can she, she’s carrying the product of love with this already married man, and, this LOSER here, still think he could have it both ways, a wife, and a whore on the side? Are you FUCKING shitting me, the woman was wrong, to get involved with a married man sure, but, the man is not at all, entirely, faultless and blameless either, in fact, it’s because of him, that two families are, torn apart!