From an online blog in Chinese I subscribe to, translated, by me…
Kindness, will never be a fatal mistake, although it may cause you to get hurt easily, but that doesn’t necessarily mean that you were wrong. Sometimes in our lives, we would encounter those who wanted to harm us, but, they are in your lives, to help you understand this fact of life.
It’s someone else that’s hurt you, not your own faults.
And, stop trying, to make yourselves like them, because the most damages that the bad people can do unto themselves, is making you like them, not hurting oneself.
So, this is telling us, to just let those who hurt you slide, but sometimes, it’s really difficult to do that, because you were hurt, damaged by someone, and, after the hurt, you’d felt betrayal, because the person who hurt you was someone you trusted in, and you wanted nothing but the worst things to happen to them, and it takes time, to finally, let the hurt heal back up, to just, let everything fade to gray, and one day, you won’t even hurt or feeling anything, when you look at that part of you that was once destroyed………
Life, the Obstacle Course 