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Q: Her Husband Told Her Everything He Was Doing with the Other Woman, But Claimed that They Were Both, Innocent………
Lately, Ming became fed up with how her husband couldn’t understand the boundaries between personal and business. She’d told, that a little while ago, her husband’s company hired the new salesperson, that the person was due to start working in a month, and naturally, at this stage, there wouldn’t be any new workers who’d needed to contact her husband, and yet, this time, this was, a female salesperson who doesn’t know her place.
At the interview, Ming’s husband would always motivate the newly hired workers with the bonuses, claimed, “If you do well I work, you will make over $100,000N.T. a month”, and, this super female salesperson from another company, may have realized, how after Ming’s husband switched companies, and started making the big bucks, and quitted her originally 5K a month job, and started using LINE to contact her husband eve4ry single day. Of course, at the very beginning, they’d only talked about business, but in a few short days’ time, she’d started telling private things about herself to him, and wanted him to guarantee, that she can earn a $100,000N.T. monthly salary if she were to work for her husband’s company.
It’d only been five, six days, and Ming had, accidentally, found that her husband was having conversations, into the midnight hours with this woman, and the very next morn, at around six or seven, she’d LINED him good morning, and would tell him where she’s doing, her whereabouts during the daytime; and what’s more unimaginable was, her husband also, started telling the woman what he’s doing every hour of his day too.
Ming had argued with her husband because of this several times, and the situations not only didn’t improve, as her husband dined with the other woman, he’d told her, “So long as my wife doesn’t know about it”, and had, deleted all the records of his conversations with her entirely before he arrived home, if Ming questioned him, he’d said, that it wasn’t anything, that Ming was thinking too much.
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But Ming was really alarmed, and she doesn’t know what to do.
A My Advice
Reading the letter, I believe, that there is, nothing going on, for now, between her husband and the other woman, but, there would be, problems, soon enough; because both Ming’s husband and the saleswoman didn’t keep the boundaries, Ming’s husband overlooked the fact, that he had the responsibilities, to protect his family, instead, making the home fronts even tenser, causing there to be a higher probability, of something happening. Ming shouldn’t fight with her husband anymore, instead, have a rational discussion with him, see if he’ll, turn back around, see if the home would keep him, or, the outside world will. As for the future, wait for it to happen then.
So, this woman is alarmed, by how close her husband is getting with his female coworker, and, we really don’t have any specifics, to tell if this man IS planning on cheating on his wife with this new worker or not, it’s all speculation, circumstantial for now, but, if the wife pushes him any harder, there’s no guarantee, that there won’t be an affair………
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