You do know, how you still can’t keep a dog, from eating his own SHIT, right??? A Q&A, translated…
Q: as our wedding date approaches, should I tolerate, or should I break up with him?
Ms. X who was engaged six months ago, and will have her wedding next month, a few days ago, found that her fiancée cheated on her with a Vietnamese woman he befriended on a friendship app; they’d met up at least twice to have sex together each and every single week, and, although the Vietnamese woman didn’t ask him for the overnight fees, but, she’d gotten more “allowances” from him. Her fiancée took care of everything for the Vietnamese woman, would buy her meals, even planned to take her to travel abroad, it felt, like the Vietnamese woman WAS his fiancée.
and this would be, what that looked like…
X said, that her fiancée would often complain about how busy he was at work, that he’d needed to finish writing his dissertation, that if X showed that she wanted to go out with him on a date, he would act all impatient, told X to plan everything out first before calling on him.
When X found that her fiancée was cheating and wanted to withdraw from the marriage, and told him that she would not tell anybody about him being unfaithful, and that he wouldn’t want him to give her anything either, but her fiancée disagreed. As they were just starting to date, because X’s own parents died early, she has only an older sister with her, they were living in poverty, and her in-laws, because of this, disliked her, kept trying to want to set their son up with someone else, but, her fiancée had, told his parents no; X had thought, that she’d found the one who truly cherished and loved her, but, how was she to know, that everything changed, after they were, engaged.
After that, her fiancée promised, that he will NEVER meet back up with the Vietnamese woman, but, he’d lied again, once he’d taken X to deliver their wedding notice to a friend, and ono the way, he’d complained that she’d taken him away, from what he’d needed to do, from work and from his studies, and, so, X can only, let him go do his own thing, “to work on his thesis”, and afterwards, she’d learned, that he went to see the other woman again.
uh yeah, this, IS B-A-D!!!
As the wedding date approaches, X was still very much in love with her fiancée, but didn’t know how she could keep on, living by him.
A My Advice
Back when X’s fiancée had chosen X, disregarded his parents’ words of seeking out another, perhaps, it was because he though X to be mild and knew the way, that even if he were caught cheating, she’d, forgive him. But, if she’d gotten tied up by her fiancée before the wedding, in the future of their marriage, there would be, NO way she can ask him to stay faithful to her in marriage; if X chose to be married, then, she must prepare herself, for being cheated on again, and find a working method, to prevent him from doing so again and again. Maybe, not having children first, as for the matter of the affairs, then, she may need a little help from the elders.
So, why would this woman still want this CHEATING son-of-a??? I really don’t know, could it be, that because she thought she couldn’t do any better than this particular LOSER, that she’s settling? And, if a man cheats on you before you two were even married, and you’d allowed him to, then, his bad behaviors will only escalate after the two of you married, so, this woman’s problem doesn’t seem so hard to resolve, just DUMP the cheating bastard, but, she’s still hung up on him for some unknown reasons………
Life, the Obstacle Course 