A woman, trapped, by her own device, because of a man, and the best way is to just, WALK away while she still can, but she’s stuck, because of L-O-V-E, in need of expert advice, a Q&A, translated…
Q: He Still Didn’t Get Divorced, and, the Single Mother is Very Confused
Miranda is divorced, and she’d met a man who’s already married; the man promised her that he will divorce his wife, and yet, she’d waited on for his divorce, for two WHOLE years………although he’d often complained of how he wasn’t getting along well enough with his wife, but, it seems, that it’ll take, forever, for the two of them, to finally get that divorce.
She’d become, confused, although from Monday to Friday, the man stays with her, and occasionally on the weekends, he’d gone back home to visit his elderly parents, but, not knowing her status in the relationship, it’s, stressing her out, plus, she has a child who’s getting older by the day, who’s learning more and more by the day, she feared that her status as a “spare” will cause her child to react very strongly.
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Miranda wanted to know where she is to go from here?
A My Opinion
I can imagine the fears, the distress that single mom, Miranda must be faced with, raising her own child alone, in this messy world, finally, she’d met a man whom she’d gotten well along with, she’d naturally wanted to, get herself out of the messy waters. But unfortunately, the man is someone else’s husband, although he’d told her, that he’d not gotten along well with his own wife for many years on end, that he’d mentioned divorce to his own wife again and again, but, he is still married to her, and that even if he was in-synch with Miranda, he’d dragged on for two years, and, slowly, Miranda had realized, that his wife will probably, never be letting him go in this lifetime.
Naturally, a man would tell the woman he was having an affair with, that he’s having troubles in his own marriage, otherwise, how can he justify him having his affair? As women, we should just, let it go in one ear, and out the other, if we’d held too much hope, we will, get, disappointed, especially if the two of them had lived on like this separately for a long time, and it’d become, a natural way of life for them, if the wife doesn’t open up the wounds, she would naturally, not, allow another woman, to step in, and take her place.
I’m thinking, that if Miranda keeps on fighting for that rightful status, she and the man will break up. Nobody knows what the future may hold, Miranda should go out and find a job, to learn a viable skill that she will be able to live off of, and treat this man as a resting station, that can soothe her own injured heart for a short while. Don’t worry, strong women will, have a way, of keeping oneself well and satisfied.
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So, this, is the dilemma of the spare wheel, and because of this LOSER’s false promises to her, and his claims on how he’s not getting along well with his own wife, but how does she know that for sure??? She doesn’t, she only has what he tells her about his family life to go on, which makes this woman especially vulnerable, especially if her “maternal instincts” are “activated”, then, she’d become, trapped by him, while this loser has absolutely NO intentions of leaving HIS own wife, and, so, if this woman doesn’t WAKE UP already, she’s going to waste away, her youthful years on someone who isn’t even WORTH her time at all………
Life, the Obstacle Course 