The observations made from life, translated…
That day, a neighbor who was riding in the same elevator as my mother-in-law asked curiously, who was the girl that my husband’s younger brother had been seen with lately? My mother-in-law told her neighbor, that she was the girl my husband’s younger brother had been dating for over a year now, that she’d come from time to time, to look after the children. The neighbor asked, if there’s a wedding anytime soon, my mother-in-law denied it quick enough, said, that my husband’s youngest brother has no intentions of getting married again, and the woman doesn’t want to get married either, that the younger generation just, wanted to be in love. My mother-in-law kept telling, that she did, tell my husband’s youngest brother, to use protection if they were ever to have intercourse, that it would be troubling, if the woman got pregnant. As the neighbor heard, she’d, frowned, “How can you call it troublesome? If she gets pregnant, there would be, a need, to give her a name!”
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I can understand the reaction of the neighbor, had it been my own daughter, already in her thirties, and is dating a man who was divorced, and with children, and, if both are dating, because they’re planning on marrying, then, it would be fine, but, the woman only wanted to, “be together”, without the commitments, how, can the mothers accept it?
And maybe, because my mother-in-law didn’t have a daughter, that, is why she’d spoken such wayward beliefs, but, from her standpoint, there’s reason to her way of thought too, if my husband’s youngest brother remarries, and had another children, naturally, she would, worry about her original grandchild, not getting enough of the attention, and now, they’re in a consensual relationship, naturally, my mother-in-law didn’t want any lives to get lost, causing more problems for the futures.
Everybody has one’s own point of view, there’s no right or wrong to it, it’s just, that I’m really curious, as to if my husband’s youngest brother’s girlfriend really doesn’t want to be married, or that she’d, compromised, to be in love with him instead, hoping, that her, giving quietly, can one day, move him? After all, in most situations, when a woman truly loves a man, naturally, she’d want, to start a family with him.
As a woman, I truly hope, that my husband’s youngest brother’s girlfriend doesn’t let love go to her head, after all, no matter how sweet the love is, after a while, it’ll, become, bland, and, it would fit her best, to think awhile, on whether or not the man who’s holding her hand right now, is someone, worthy, of her, giving all her youth to.
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So, there you have it, a modern day relationship, and, I can understand the man’s point of view, he’d already, had a failed marriage from before, he’d not wanted the troubles of going through all that again, and, the woman he’s dating, in order to please him, I’m thinking, is just, going along, and, maybe she’d wanted more of a commitment from him, or not, who knows? And, how will this relationship work out or end? Only time will tell…
Life, the Obstacle Course 