Time to, BUST those M-Y-T-H-S here!!!
In order to have a good family to grow up in, you need to have BOTH parents, that, would be the age-old, traditionalist belief, wouldn’t it??? And yet, look around yourselves, and tell me, HOW many of the families you know, actually FIT into this “category”??? not very many, would be MY guess, then again, what the HELL would I know…
This, would be, extremely ideal, to have a loving father, and a kind mother for a child, to grow up around, but reality isn’t really that so, not most of the times, anyway. In order to have a good family to grow up in, you need to have BOTH parents, this, is based off of the age-old belief that two parents would be there, to provide for the child better, but, this is not actually the case in real-life here.
Take for instance, a home with an abusive spouse, would the child grow up safe and sound, if s/he is raised around that sort of encounter, watching one parent being abusive to the other? And, what if the child picks up on the parents’ bad behaviors, and becomes an abuser, and/or an enabler her/himself too when s/he gets older?
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In order to have a good family to grow up in, you need BOTH parents, but that, is ideal, and UNREALISTIC, as the formations of modern-day families are still undergoing construction, and, the family dynamics are still, changing, rearranging, and there’s NO judging which sort of a family is better for a child than the other.
In order to have a good family to grow up in, you need BOTH parents, and that, is what traps you inside your unhappy marriages, and, if you, the adults are unhappy in your marriage to one another, how happy can your kid be? After all, a child’s happiness is based off of how well the parents interact with each other, and, if you, the STUPID adults aren’t careful enough, then, you would, RUIN your child for life!
So, don’t think, that staying together for the sake of a child is working in ANY ways………
