You must be wondering, H-O-W, this could’ve happened, well, let me SHOW you H-O-W!!!
You’d, fallen in love, for the last and final time, or so you’d been, led to believe, that you’d found, the one, to spend ALL of eternity with, but, was s/he, the right man/woman for you, really?
You were, made up of, so many different things, ideals, with your separate sets of experiences, emotions, that you’d used, to define you, but after you’d fallen in love, you’d started, trying, to appease the other person, so s/he will love you, and, in the processes of, pleasing the other person, making yourselves into who the other person wanted you to be, you’d, unfortunately, lost your senses of the self.
and this, was what you W-E-R-E from before…
You’re now, tied, by her/his emotions, when s/he is happy, so are you, when s/he is upset, you’d become, upset too, and, you don’t even KNOW it yet, but, you’re, slowly, losing control over YOUR OWN life, by allowing the other person you’re with, to tell you how you’re supposed to feel about certain things.
and, what you are, N-O-W…
see the differences???
You’d gone from a multicellular creature, with all the various parts of you, acting together, to make you into a unique you, into someone who’d become, totally, attached, reliant, and codependent on the other person, and, the other person’s smiles will make you feel that much happier, and her/his frowns will get you down, and, you don’t even know it yet, but, you’d, lost completely control, over YOUR own lives, why don’t you see that? Oh yeah, ‘cuz, you’re, blinded, by this “little” thing called L-O-V-E, but, that feeling of infatuation WILL wear OFF, then what? What, will you be, left with??? Not even Y-O-U, as a “whole”, ‘cuz, you’d, given that important thing up, back when you started, falling in love, remember??? And, to get you back, well, it’s next to impossible now………
Life, the Obstacle Course 