NOT all of us are as BLESSED as you, limited number of human beings out there…
If you have parents who loved you, the RIGHT way, meaning that they weren’t STUPID enough, to confuse love with abuse like mine still are, then, chances will be, that you will grow up, into a very loving person, with absolutely NO trust issues, but, there are, many exceptions of children who were raised in abusive/neglectful backgrounds who went on to become loving folks too, so, nothing IS set in stone.
If you have parents who loved you, then, you are, very lucky, because not every single one of us were so very much blessed, with the loving parents who didn’t PUSH us to grow up fast, to shoulder UP the responsibilities in their marriages.
on the outside, they’d still appeared, “average”, don’t they???
If you have parents who loved you, then, DO count your blessings, and, pass the love you’d received from your parents, down to your own children, so they won’t EVER know the experiences that you never knew existed.
If you have parents who loved you, but, I highly doubt that, because, and I quote: “ALL families of origin H-U-R-T!” (from my group therapy sessions from way, way, WAY back when…), and besides, think about it: if you were able to select who you want as your parents, would you have chosen the parents you have now??? I wouldn’t imagine so, and, I REST my C-A-S-E here!!!
this, being the more accurate depiction…
